get divorced
best thing that happened to me

ask him
would he be ok with you being with other men?
if the answer is no, don't even consider it
he just wants to sleep with other girls if thats the case

This post was edited by Loipisdead on Sep 5 2023 07:52am

This

Bad idea

Open marriage works well if both are interested in the lifestyle.

over a year since my last comment and it seems this thread has taken a turn.

are you actually happy or are you just content? there is a difference.

i think instead of open marriage you two should approach a swingers lifestyle (preferably full swap but always together) or a cuck/hotwife situation since he likes to watch anyway.

I'm content I guess. Id leave if it were actually feasible. I don't feel like it is. We definatly dont fight as much where we just go out together but it's so much harder to find a couple we both like. I'm pretty much done looking tho. Just been talking to the same long distance bf.and my hubby still has his "rope girl" but he dosnt see her as much.....

I highly disapprove on multiple levels. Also I suspect your debaucherous "husband" might be catfishing you as your "boyfriend".




IMO this sounds like some kind of indentured servitude... or I guess it sounds like you're being an indentured servitute since you are OFing to contribute to expenditures. If you're able bodied and willing, you always have options & steps to take to regain control/self respect. From my perspective, it's better to turn the page than continue slowly torturing yourself.

this topic scares me

This post was edited by Lazybumi on Mar 14 2024 09:23pm