Quote (MadMan87 @ 23 Sep 2022 11:30)
I mean. I clearly understand it more than you. Not that I’m an expert on the subject but since I’m 35. Have(as you said) been with the same person since high school (15 exactly) and then married to that very same person for 15 years.
I kinda got a hint of what it’s like to be in a real relationship. House, Bills, Kids, fights, in-laws, property purchases, health issues… you know the usual stuff. Been there done that.
At what length do you find I’ll be knowledgeable on the subject would you say? Do I have to get a degree from an unmarried professor? Do I have to hit 80 and still be with her?
You need to be able to comprehend that your own life is merely on perspective on the topic. And not something you project onto others, or even history. Once you are able to look in it in that way, some people might start considering you wise.