Quote (UmadLoL @ Dec 23 2021 09:36am)
for real tho
It's all good man. I have everything I need, don't feel sorry for me, it's my son that I'm truly sorry for. He deserves a family.
A broken family is still family. You have the ability to show your son that there is merit in treating your ex wife-to-be with dignity regardless of how she has treated you, and your son will have the greatest example one can think of in terms of how to treat the people around you.
There's no denying that you and your ex have had a considerable history together and I suspect that her claiming she's never been happy is just demonizing you in order to make it easier for herself to take these steps. It's a means of self-deception that a lot of people find themselves trapped in. It's no longer your responsibility to make her see things differently, though, and if she wants to throw it all away regardless of the impact on your son just to have an adventure with another guy she only knows over the internet, it's gonna be her loss. That doesn't mean you haven't had a good time with her in the past, though, and you should never forget those days. Whether you see her in light of recent events or in light of ALL events is a choice for you to make, but if you judge her for the recent events you'll end up doing the exact same thing she's doing: demonizing the other person to justify yourself.
Your son will be fine, I'm sure of it
