nothing special.

just me and here

5 years and counting. every time you mention "Silvia"

im crying for her


i think i did a big fuck up and let her go

but i know. she has a guy now

he is okayish and finally treat her well



how to move on ?

As hard as it may be, ridding photos or other sentimental items would be the first step. Or maybe storing it somewhere you wouldn't ever bump into.
Go on with your life, start to make even more plans with friends & family. Focus on yourself growth, pick-up a hobby. Heck, maybe even start working out if you haven't.

And go easy on yourself, quit thinking about all the "right" or "wrong" choices during the relationship, there are no right or wrong ways to go about it.

Good luck bud!

Play diablo 2 bro

Once you find someone new you will quickly forget about the old

Be honest to yourself. You don’t miss HER. You miss SOMEONE. You broke up with her for a good reason.

Don’t put her on a pedestral and only remember the good times. Think rational. And yeah start dating 10 other girls

You only feel bad because you look back and think that's the best you could get. Not a winner's mentality.

The man who knows his potential never feels this way. He is confident that he can find much better under the condition that he puts in the work to raise his sexual market value.

Kill her. No Joke i have the same "problem" (not any more) xD i dont cry 4 her ( my 5 years ago love ). Im Fine. maybe i try again in 5 years... xD but dont get her out of my head too.. thats normal atm for me x3

This post was edited by mini_lld on Jul 10 2021 10:39am

Be patient, you will find a good one, and when you do it will be worth the wait. Go out and enjoy yourself, if it wasn't meant to be it wasn't meant to be. Find a girl you really enjoy to be around and dont be afraid to lower your standards, because I wasn't even attracted to my wife when we met but now she is the most beautiful person in the world to me. Whats most important is you make each other happy. Whatever mistakes you may have made in the past just be sure to not make them again. Aim to please and you will be pleased as well. I think my wife and I wouldn't of made it as far as we have if I didn't uterly trust her. I have always given her 100% freedom, to hang out with whoever she wants, and go wherever she wants. No questions asked. But like I said she has always proven to me that I can completely trust her.

This post was edited by Riv3r8888 on Jul 11 2021 02:26pm