Quote (Caulder10 @ Oct 25 2020 05:54pm)
I fuckin love you!
i love you too
Quote (nairada @ Nov 18 2020 05:54am)
i believe in you, buddy
i also love you too stranger
well
today marks 5 weeks
i'm happy to report i've made some progress on this plan
yet disappointed i've not met all of the goals
firstly and most importantly however
i officially have my own apartment
here is a very tepid pat in his new dwelling
my official move in date was november 1 but i literally had to buy everything and get utilities all set up and all that jazz
so it took me until november 19 to get all this done
it was a really hectic few weeks and unfortunately i was still mostly a piece of shit during those few weeks
i've definitely cut back on the monsters but up until this point i've still been mostly drinking them
the weight is another positive though, a few days ago i was down to 165 and i've been taking my walks
should be easy to get the rest of that gone with some structure now in place
but i still need to incorporate some more veggies into my diet besides potato
unfortunately i've had no luck on the job hunt yet
i applied to one on nov.4 i felt really good about but nothing
and that is that i guess
i am pretty shocked i am in my own apartment though
it is a really nice place, albeit a little small, but certainly enough room for a lonely masturbator
and well
it has been lonely
it's so quiet and empty and i couldn't sleep for the first few nights
i suppose it's getting better, but it's still just so weird
people tell me i'll get used to it since this is the first time i've been on my own
i'm sure i will, but it's definitely going to take more time than so far
but i miss my mom
and that brings me to my final goal of being ready to go on a date
i am sad to say that is not going to happen
i can be happy that i have my own place at least for when the time comes
but i just still am in no shape to venture out there
i'm still pretty well dreaming of ann every single night
i don't know how to make it stop, i try thinking about things before falling asleep but the dreams end up the same
so i guess 6 months is still a little too soon for this scared little marshmellow
hopefully january 1st pat will be able to
and i can't say i feel all that confident about my body right now anyway so it's a moot point i suppose
that's all i can say for now
for the next month however
i've got to lose a minimum of 5 more pounds to get <160
and hopefully warm up to this place enough where i can really call it home and maybe introduce somebody to it
until next month
best of luck to you january pat