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Sep 19 2020 10:34am
Say your gf had a female friend who has put your gf down to the point she cried over it on two different occasions, months apart. After the second fight they had, her friend blocks her on fb and all that high school style bs. Another four months go by, the ex friend of your gf moves back to town, apologizes and expects your gf to hang out now that she said "sorry". She has not hung out with her yet but has been chatting it up with said ex friend.

What would you do as her caring man? Advise her that this very likely could happen again and that she has proven herself to be a cruddy friend and to be very careful not to allow herself to get hurt again by her?

Or let her get hurt, and after she gets hurt, then what?

What I did was the first, and holy shit, did I ever open the door to the bitch cage.... wowie...

Gf said that "I seem to be more offended then she is about it all." To which I said, "I am offended about what she did to the woman I love and care about, because I love her and care." And she got angrier. Ugh lol why tf am I in shit for caring!? :rofl:

But yeah, what would be your avenue you would take?
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Sep 20 2020 08:28am
I greatly appreciate all the input you folks never put in. Thanks...
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Sep 21 2020 11:21am
there is no real answer here.
if you tell her, youre most likely going to get told your an asshole
if you leave it alone itll just become a cycle youll have to deal with and if you DONT deal with it youll be an asshole


realistically all you can do is ride the wave and deal.
if your girl isnt smart enough to figure this shit out...well...not much you can do. personally id be less supportive when it happens again but thats just me and im cool with being the asshole.
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Sep 21 2020 11:24am
Quote (xBx @ Sep 21 2020 01:21pm)
there is no real answer here.
if you tell her, youre most likely going to get told your an asshole
if you leave it alone itll just become a cycle youll have to deal with and if you DONT deal with it youll be an asshole


realistically all you can do is ride the wave and deal.
if your girl isnt smart enough to figure this shit out...well...not much you can do. personally id be less supportive when it happens again but thats just me and im cool with being the asshole.


Your input is appreciated. Sometimes it is just nice to hear anothers response. In this case, I will be ok with being an asshole by being less supportive next time her "friend" pulls the same shit. I appreciate you. 👊
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Sep 21 2020 11:31am
Quote (ManaJunkie @ Sep 21 2020 12:24pm)
Your input is appreciated. Sometimes it is just nice to hear anothers response. In this case, I will be ok with being an asshole by being less supportive next time her "friend" pulls the same shit. I appreciate you. 👊


HOWEVER...

do not, and i can not stress this enough, say "told you so" when it happens.

it will not end well for you lol
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Sep 21 2020 11:37am
Quote (xBx @ Sep 21 2020 01:31pm)
HOWEVER...

do not, and i can not stress this enough, say "told you so" when it happens.

it will not end well for you lol


This, I am aware of. That is a entire "new problem" if I say that. :rofl:
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Sep 21 2020 11:52am
Quote (ManaJunkie @ Sep 21 2020 12:37pm)
This, I am aware of. That is a entire "new problem" if I say that. :rofl:


lolol
hopefully you get lucky and she either gets wise to her "friend" or she just leaves town again shortly.
in any event, i wish you luck
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Quote (xBx @ Sep 21 2020 01:52pm)
lolol
hopefully you get lucky and she either gets wise to her "friend" or she just leaves town again shortly.
in any event, i wish you luck


Thanks! Cheers lad!
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Sep 21 2020 04:25pm
Sounds like you don't agree with wifey choices and wifey not having it.


Maybe agree with her and then explain how you feel.

Remember Happy Wife is a Happy Life.


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have threesome with them and all will be ok
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