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Jul 21 2020 02:15pm
My marriage is not going to work, we both understand it's not a healthy relationship.
I get extremely anxious going in a government building. (I don't have any real issue. Never been on the good side of government.)

My question is, is it better to go in a file asap, or am I ok to let it ride for a bit?
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Jul 21 2020 05:09pm
I’d say the sooner the better, if this is something completely mutual there is no real reason to wait. Plus it meshes it that much sooner then both of you can get into a healthy mindset
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Jul 21 2020 09:51pm
If it's mutual and your both for it whats stopping you.
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Jul 24 2020 10:26pm
Wait what? Youre getting divorced and you worry about entering a gvnt building?
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Jul 25 2020 12:17am
Quote (DaJockaz @ Jul 24 2020 10:26pm)
Wait what? Youre getting divorced and you worry about entering a gvnt building?


Yes. I get bad anxiety from taking to any formal. I also understand I should rip the band-aid
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Jul 27 2020 06:58am
Quote (Transparentsin @ Jul 25 2020 02:17am)
Yes. I get bad anxiety from taking to any formal. I also understand I should rip the band-aid


dude just stay with her, if the building is scarier than her, shes the best woman on earth

e: 3 divorces + anxiety, keeping half my stuff wasn't even worth "letting it ride"

This post was edited by dude_927 on Jul 27 2020 07:00am
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Aug 11 2020 06:36am
You can do it. When the divorce is final, you'll probably feel better and you can look to the future.
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Aug 16 2020 08:36pm
File
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Sep 17 2020 10:28pm
File and get it out of the way, you're avoiding the inevitable
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Sep 18 2020 08:37am
update?
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