talking to this girl for a month now. She hooks up with her ex literally like 3 hours ago then calls her friends afterwards asking if she should come clean. They say "no fk that" and she tells me anyways. (in her defense she was clean and honest) Before she calls me, she has a breakdown, etc.
She calls me after her breakdown letting me know there was something up and told me.

one month in, she fks her ex while talking to me.
Do I continue talking? or is that now a side hoe.
told her at this moment we are just ganna be friends atm and she's fine with that.
But what would you do in this scenario.

Don't be a dick, looking for honest answers.

eesh
she sent a huge message through text after the phone call.

This post was edited by killerrs2 on Apr 19 2020 01:36am

Personal preference.

I'm pretty strict on respect. In my opinion she knew there was a possibility she may do this and should have mentioned to you that she may end up have sexual encounters with other people.

That's a decision you have to make for yourself, she didn't technically wrong you but it's pretty close for me.

How do you feel about it yourself? It's not a technical relationship but I believe when you're entertaining suiters you still focus that energy on them. Not keep options open and play around because you can according to the fine print.

She would be a write off for me but it depends how you think about it.

I understand the technicality of it, but I agree with you for the most part. I cleared out my dms pretty much entirely for her or ghosted the ones I wasn't actually creating something with. But yea, that's a pretty damn big thing to do...if you wanted I have like an ss, but I'm not really wanting to post it directly on here.
Either way, it was rude as fk I was pretty far into doing shit for her. College hw for one. Was literally going to ask to meet up with her after I was done quaratine (lol which is today).

Especially since it was an ex AND she literally told me that nothing would erupt from her past relationship with him.
+ They did meet at fken 11:30pm. Lol, what did you expect from that?

This post was edited by killerrs2 on Apr 19 2020 09:26am

Sorry dude, good ones are worth holding out for.

Doesn't mean you can't have fun with her but given the traits she has showed regarding impluse or desire control she is not worth a life investment.

This post was edited by Hecht55 on Apr 19 2020 09:56am

Might just end up making fwb with her. But not sure how to make that out of the situation we have now.

This post was edited by killerrs2 on Apr 19 2020 12:15pm

Depends. Y'all smashing or you just been simping?

That's the shitty thing. We haven't met because I've been in isolation. I just got out and she doing this

Mannn nah why invest the time and emotional attachment?

She clearly wants more if she's coming clean to you and you clearly developed feelings if you're upset about her sleeping with her ex

Hit it once since you've already put in the effort, then dip imo

She fked her ex bro. How does that make you feel? Can't be good. Tell her to beat it. Or at least do what a couple the fellas said and tap it but don't get invested in it. Shes a side piece 100%

She's been tapped.