lol

Agree with the once a cheater part

Anyway this seems like pretty bad news if someone can lie to people for several months straight. People learn indeed but not like this.

And this is the biggest bullshit there is

Every relationship is different.

Just some butthurt people here who got cheated on and now blame that person only, rather than looking at yourself for a change and maybe question what the fuck is wrong with you instead.

This post was edited by Stefbef on Jul 13 2020 08:32pm

still here

Our hearts go out for you..

The relationship started out like that, even if she leaves the guy now, what makes you think this exact thing wont just happen again, except you'd be the one in his shoes and somebody else in yours.
Sounds like therapy or self help is needed, till some major self changes, though, expect the same patterns to reoccur.

Turn gay

LOL this is another option

I'm sorry to hear that. It seems like a convoluted story. It's not easy to judge over the Internet.
From my experience, I can tell you should listen to your heart. Sometimes you're in love with someone because you're not happy. The story seems to bother you. I advise you to look at yourself first and not to depend on another person.
She doesn't seem happy either. I can't tell if she's right for you, but you should consider whether she's good for your psyche.
Be brave. I wish you all the best for the future.

looks like she is having some fun time and make you depending on her love, hope she can be with you. Than she can break you and make you have trust issue and still love her.