Quote (Hecht55 @ Mar 3 2020 05:59pm)
Sounds like you should learn to manage your anxiety first. If her simply talking to other males is enough to give you heightened anxiety you're in no position to be entering a committed relationship.
Anxiety is not something to be brushed off, you can't get away with saying "I have bad anxiety" to avoid or control situations. You need to fix it.
Quote (Hecht55 @ Mar 4 2020 05:56pm)
They've been on 3 dates. She's not his girlfriend nor did he ever state they are exclusive.
There is no reason for jealousy or anxiety here.
i mean its 3 dates, how long has it been? even though youve said youre learning to cope with it and gotten some closure 3 dates and youre falling quickly and hard AND insecure? thats a recipe for bad times.