Quote (Corsinoxcore @ 5 Mar 2020 13:05)

Who said anything about sloppy seconds?

Quote (SmallBalls @ Mar 5 2020 01:12pm)

define 'non exclusive' then

Quote (Corsinoxcore @ 5 Mar 2020 13:14)

Well, all it means is that we weren't in a relationship together until that point.

Are you suggesting that because of that, she must have been bangin' other guys in HER bed until then? If that's the case, that's highly unlikely due to the circumstances.

Regardless; my point was that OP should take it easy and not get all worked up over it lol

Quote (SmallBalls @ Mar 5 2020 01:18pm)

fair enough and i wasn't suggesting your gf was doing that but i wouldn't put it past girls these days to say some shit like "its not cheating because you never said we were official"

Quote (Hecht55 @ Mar 3 2020 05:59pm)

Sounds like you should learn to manage your anxiety first. If her simply talking to other males is enough to give you heightened anxiety you're in no position to be entering a committed relationship.

Anxiety is not something to be brushed off, you can't get away with saying "I have bad anxiety" to avoid or control situations. You need to fix it.

Quote (Hecht55 @ Mar 4 2020 05:56pm)

They've been on 3 dates. She's not his girlfriend nor did he ever state they are exclusive.

There is no reason for jealousy or anxiety here.