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Mar 4 2020 07:16am
Quote (Corsinoxcore @ Mar 3 2020 10:27pm)
Meh, that's a little subjective. Lots of people have found love via dating apps.
That's how it goes in this day and age.


not subjective at all. Its the truth.

And no... Thats not how it "goes" in this day n age... Its just how you and some others in society think it goes.

Any girl looking on a dating site already shows the desperation dude without a word even being said.

We both been on this site longer than 10 years, inbox me in 10 years n tell me I'm wrong

The 1st sign is after U both meet, and currently dating, U should both delete the app as it's no longer required, does she still have it on her phone?

I could be wrong.... But yeah man, it's your life.


This post was edited by Gwiido on Mar 4 2020 07:17am
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Mar 4 2020 09:33am
Quote (Hecht55 @ Mar 3 2020 03:59pm)
Sounds like you should learn to manage your anxiety first. If her simply talking to other males is enough to give you heightened anxiety you're in no position to be entering a committed relationship.

Anxiety is not something to be brushed off, you can't get away with saying "I have bad anxiety" to avoid or control situations. You need to fix it.


LOL

Bro, he’s trying to be coy. She’s from tinder, like she’s not just “talking to other guys” aye?
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Mar 4 2020 09:40am
Quote (Gwiido @ Mar 4 2020 08:16am)
not subjective at all. Its the truth.

And no... Thats not how it "goes" in this day n age... Its just how you and some others in society think it goes.

Any girl looking on a dating site already shows the desperation dude without a word even being said.

We both been on this site longer than 10 years, inbox me in 10 years n tell me I'm wrong

The 1st sign is after U both meet, and currently dating, U should both delete the app as it's no longer required, does she still have it on her phone?

I could be wrong.... But yeah man, it's your life.


No. Unless you have study data, or otherwise, to back up your claim, it is subjective. (Your opinion)

Have a bad experience with a dating app did we?
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Mar 4 2020 11:05am
Quote (CharlieDayZ @ Mar 4 2020 10:33am)
LOL

Bro, he’s trying to be coy. She’s from tinder, like she’s not just “talking to other guys” aye?



Yeah, so there is no reason for heightened anxiety.
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Mar 4 2020 12:09pm
Quote (Hecht55 @ Mar 4 2020 09:05am)
Yeah, so there is no reason for heightened anxiety.



Are you aware of what tinder is? I’m sure there’s lots of nice people on there, but uhh yea, it’s tinder.
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Mar 4 2020 12:36pm
Quote (CharlieDayZ @ Mar 4 2020 01:09pm)
Are you aware of what tinder is? I’m sure there’s lots of nice people on there, but uhh yea, it’s tinder.


I'm no longer single. But when I was... I loved Tinder :wub:
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Mar 4 2020 05:56pm
Quote (CharlieDayZ @ Mar 4 2020 01:09pm)
Are you aware of what tinder is? I’m sure there’s lots of nice people on there, but uhh yea, it’s tinder.



They've been on 3 dates. She's not his girlfriend nor did he ever state they are exclusive.

There is no reason for jealousy or anxiety here.
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Mar 5 2020 06:20am
Quote (Corsinoxcore @ Mar 4 2020 11:40pm)
No. Unless you have study data, or otherwise, to back up your claim, it is subjective. (Your opinion)

Have a bad experience with a dating app did we?


nah mate, I don't need to bother with stupid online apps, with all the girls who throw themselves at me in real life n all, I've had bad exp with in real life but hear nothing but crap about those stupid apps with all the cat fishes on there.

I honestly don't even know what tinder even looks like. I've just had that many relationships I already know how the ending goes
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Mar 5 2020 11:31am
Quote (Corsinoxcore @ 2 Mar 2020 10:54)
Was going to say something similar.

You're both quite young, so unless she feels the same way that you do (head over heels) - I would tread carefully.
Prepare yourself for the worst, so you don't get hurt.

I went through a similar situation with my current girlfriend. I fell for her pretty hard after 2-3 dates. I didn't act like it though, played it slowly, and eventually, SHE asked me to make it exclusive. (Little over a month after our first date)

We're 30 years old though.


1 month of sloppy seconds?

if im sharing my bed with a chick that means shes exclusive and it's communicated too
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Quote (SmallBalls @ Mar 5 2020 12:31pm)
1 month of sloppy seconds?

if im sharing my bed with a chick that means shes exclusive and it's communicated too


Who said anything about sloppy seconds?
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