Quote (Forg0tten @ Jan 26 2020 12:17pm)
(Pardon DP)
Wanted to add, some of our discussions about this particular subject have had me drop a hint that if she still wants that contact with him she should reflect on what he is to her - without me in her corner. And the suggestion of me leaving has left her shattered twice already. That's usually a sign of emotional investment, isn't it? >.> I really think that my actions and positioning in all this is equal to shooting myself in the foot time and again. But I can't help it, the feeling and hesitation is there.
I think with the current gameplan of just rolling with it and overall being chill will pan out like this.
1. Eventually she just gets tired of the guy or they grow distant, both of you keep dating, etc. etc.
2. Things end, maybe drama follows with that guy. She cheats or something else happens, she breaks up with you. Or it seems like this is going to be a permanent thing with him and her always being in frequent connection and you just get tired and pull the pin.
Either way. You can still roll with it. Learn from it and just have fun with it by living in the moment. Worst case scenario, things don't work out (course you could also get royally screwed and have some temporary pain following it) but you still may gain more relationship skills and add some great memories to your pallette outside of that.
This post was edited by GLYC123 on Jan 26 2020 07:58pm