Quote (dude_927 @ Nov 29 2019 11:10am)
Yes ex was recovering alcoholic, addict and probably immature. It wasnt that she didnt want to be in a relationship, she was just a pathological liar, she would do stupid shit like hide/dump out the milk so she could get a coffee on the way to get more so she wouldnt have to directly ask for coffee.
She not constantly going to the bar, we stand nowhere, and nobody knows where its going.
Both have kids
being that i use to have a problem with drugs what it sounds like is that girl was no longer recovering she was in active addiction but thats the past dont worry about that .. dont let that situation guide your current and future relationships
with this girl now its not that i would be careful but i would find out what shes looking for is she looking to eventually possibly move into something serious or is this just a pass time get fucked type thing and you need to know what your getting into so you dont get hurt for going into this relationship wanting/expecting different things .. the reason i say this is because everyone is diff i dont know the girls life story but you guys are adults and have children ( not together) but at this stage in life she shouldnt have like the time to be going to the bar all the time .. jobs / kids / girlfriends or boyfriends dont leave much room to run the town but at the same time everyone should get breaks from real life/responsibilities and see old friends and have fun here and there but not constantly
if it were me .. i would let it rock out for a lil while to see how things go and pay attention to her and her attitude towards you its so early on your right you have no room to say shit about shit if you guys arent really together yet
after a little time passes see if you feel like trust is building or if your starting to really not trust her lol