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Aug 19 2019 09:02pm
I met this person in highschool when we were both 17 years old and she was a strong follower of the mormon religion at the time.
I was/ still am not a religious person by any means but would never make anyone feel inferior or anything for their religious beliefs.
During the next 5 years we dated very seriously, spending every day together, experiencing a lot of firsts for different things (sex, drugs, alcohol, ect)
Also during this time she battled with many personal conflicts with her beliefs and the choices she was making with me that went against her religion and eventually left me to go to school at BYU in Utah.
To this day I miss her dearly and wish things could have worked out, she is constantly visiting me in my dreams which makes it very hard to let go of her and am constantly reminded of her and feel heartbreak.
The breakup happened nearly 4 years ago now, 3 of which I have been in another relationship for, and I feel terrible that I am in a relationship with this person and still feel in love with someone else.
Am I doing something wrong by staying with this "new" person who I care about, just hoping to someday get over my ex who I feel so strongly about and feel that way about my current S/O?
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Aug 19 2019 09:04pm
Are you wanting a relationship with your ex?
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Aug 19 2019 09:04pm

Aren't morons allowed to have more than one wife?
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Aug 19 2019 09:05pm
Quote (Handcuffs @ Aug 19 2019 10:04pm)
Are you wanting a relationship with your ex?


If that was possible, very much so.
I feel like she was the love of my life -- I have not met anyone that made me feel happiness or joy as she did.
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Aug 19 2019 09:06pm
Quote (SpeshL @ Aug 19 2019 08:05pm)
If that was possible, very much so.
I feel like she was the love of my life -- I have not met anyone that made me feel happiness or joy as she did.


Are you currently in contact with her at all?
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Aug 19 2019 09:08pm
Quote (Handcuffs @ Aug 19 2019 10:06pm)
Are you currently in contact with her at all?


She messages me once in a while out of the blue, sometimes just to share a song or sometimes we catch up and see where eachother are at in life.
I never reach out to her though.
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Aug 19 2019 09:08pm
Quote (Handcuffs @ 19 Aug 2019 23:04)
Are you wanting a relationship with your ex?



be nice
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Aug 19 2019 09:10pm
Quote (excellence @ Aug 19 2019 10:08pm)
be nice


tbh i don't care what anyone has to say as long as it's something, this has been eating me alive not having a single person to talk to it about.
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Quote (SpeshL @ Aug 19 2019 08:08pm)
She messages me once in a while out of the blue, sometimes just to share a song or sometimes we catch up and see where eachother are at in life.
I never reach out to her though.


You should reach out to her. It's far better to speak than to die.
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Aug 19 2019 09:11pm
Quote (excellence @ Aug 19 2019 08:08pm)
be nice


Aren't I always (mostly)?
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