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Aug 16 2019 06:19am
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/inclusive-insight/201906/are-trans-people-excluded-the-world-dating

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Recently, my colleague and I asked this question of just under 1,000 participants and we published our findings in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships. Our results indicated that 87.5% of the participants who were asked this very question only checked off the cisgender options and excluded transgender and non-binary individuals from their hypothetical dating pool.

It's really not an inconsequential question. For many of my trans friends, the question of whether or not someone will date them after they transition or come out often weighs heavily on their mind. After all, relationships are one of our most important sources of social support. Indeed, our relationships play an important role in our overall mental and physical well-being and our relationships are a better predictor of how long we'll live than smoking or obesity! But, if very few people are willing to date trans people, what does this mean for their health and well-being?



So it looks like the world is not particularly supportive of trans folks with the vast majority of individuals stating they will only date members of the opposite sex. Personally I've come to terms with my transphobia as i do not see them as the gender they identify as and have no interest in them. I'm well aware of where many kf our conservative friends stand on the issue but id like to know where our liberal friends stand on the issue of dating transgender folks and if they are unwilling I'm curious about the source of their transphobia :o
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Aug 16 2019 06:31am
If I'm attracted to someone and connect with them, sure

I'm not into saying never for things that arent unethical and harming to others so if it happens, let it be
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Aug 16 2019 06:31am
knowing you're not attracted to trans people isn't the problem. reacting violently to getting surprised someone is trans and that you're attracted to them is.
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Aug 16 2019 06:57am
just pair them off with incels

solve 2 problems at once
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Aug 16 2019 06:58am
I identify as a MTFTM transtransman and demand that smoking hot women aged 20-30 fondle my balls, bigot.
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Aug 16 2019 07:08am
Quote (Dominate2 @ 16 Aug 2019 08:57)
just pair them off with incels

solve 2 problems at once


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Aug 16 2019 07:14am

Date for a specific target with no time to lose, or date to meet various people... Such a confusion.

That's another trap topic.
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Aug 16 2019 07:16am
Quote (excellence @ Aug 16 2019 08:08am)


Quote (Dominate2 @ Aug 16 2019 07:57am)
just pair them off with incels

solve 2 problems at once


combined rate of suicide / domestic slaying of 70%+ per couple
I approve
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Quote (duffman316 @ Aug 16 2019 08:19am)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/inclusive-insight/201906/are-trans-people-excluded-the-world-dating

So it looks like the world is not particularly supportive of trans folks with the vast majority of individuals stating they will only date members of the opposite sex. Personally I've come to terms with my transphobia as i do not see them as the gender they identify as and have no interest in them. I'm well aware of where many kf our conservative friends stand on the issue but id like to know where our liberal friends stand on the issue of dating transgender folks and if they are unwilling I'm curious about the source of their transphobia :o


People have the right to their own personal preference.

If we can accept people have dating preferences for height, muscle mass, or skin pigments then I don’t see why what this doesn’t also fall under personal preference.

This post was edited by obisent on Aug 16 2019 07:21am
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