Quote (Thor123422 @ 9 Apr 2019 03:35)
I understand transgender, as in preferring non traditional social roles, but transsexual I just don't understand. Your sex is what you are, not who you are. If I decide I want brown eyes instead of blue I won't have everybody refer to me as brown-eyed. I might understand getting a procedure to change my eyes to brown if its available and my preference is strong enough to tolerate the risk, but I don't understand why you would feel that strongly in the first place.
It's fine to not understand gender dysphoria. It's difficult to empathise fully with it unless you've experienced it - just like most subjective disorders.
Being trans isn't, for most people, a preference. It's a reaction to discomfort they feel around their sexual characteristics. For me that discomfort can be quite severe at times... like an actual revulsion for certain attributes I have that are masculine.
I often try to explain dysphoria like this - have you ever heard your voice on tape? Did you cringe at it? Think it was awful? Think it didn't sound like you?
It's like that... but generally a more severe aversion. Severe enough that it can make people depressed and even suicidal. Transitioning medically is something that is scientifically proven to reduce that feeling. It's the only treatment that seems to have a marked positive effect. That's why 'transsexuals' exist.
This post was edited by TransTankie on Apr 8 2019 09:54pm