Quote (cbghas @ Jan 28 2019 07:10pm)
Its over she called me an over obsessive stalker and im having major issues so i have to go get those taken care of her and i had it fixed and going strong taking all your guys advice we managed to make it happen and be happy but one day we both snapped and she left me and got a laid the next day by some other guy so she would feel better. Never thought id feel like this :cry:
Tough situation. Honestly, sometimes you just have to let go.
Focus on your issues, improve yourself, and more good things will come your way in time.
It's all about riding the waves of life and going with the flow. Roll with the punches.
Just try to be an easygoing, positive, motivated guy with a take it or leave it attitude. That will get you far in life.
She definitely has some issues of her own, a healthy woman wouldn't just immediately go sleep with a guy simply just to feel better. Some insecurity there.
Likely her insecurity triggered yours, which happens, especially when you're a little bit newer to the success you've gotten.
In time, and as you grow, it will become very hard to become uncentered.
For now, I would just focus on self reflection, be true with yourself and your pain. So that you can just get it out.
Spend some days just being authentic with it, and after awhile, just dust off your boots, concentrate on who you want to be, and get productive again.
It will likely hurt for a good amount of time, but time really does heal all. With time, even when you look back at those you've loved, you might feel a sliver of sadness, but you will still be able to simultaneously look forward to the future and believe that more great things are on their way.
Best wishes
This post was edited by GLYC123 on Jan 28 2019 08:39pm