Honestly im be pretty surprised with how good the advice has been lol

I think it's normal to think of "what ifs", etc. That's likely what youre experiencing. It happens. I mean, I think everybody has some form of curiosity. There's so many routes we can take in life, with so many different outcomes. Yet, we can really only experience so many of them.

It sounds like you have a great thing going on with your wife and kid. They should be all the reassurance you need to not look the other way, and that you're making the right decision with where you're at.

This post was edited by GLYC123 on Jan 11 2019 03:06am

be strong n if that don't work find a new hit, then quit n go back to d2 mfing n shit XD

thats quite the pickle you got there.

The X was a drug for you. Do not reconnect with your X, quit it cold turkey and block her, she missed her chance.

I would also avoid discussing these feelings with your wife as it may sound like you're comparing her to your X, even without meaning to. Or worse outcome, your wife will think she is not enough for you.

Your exgf is suddenly contacting you because she got dumped and realizes she's hitting the wall. So she's looking for a new provider. She sent you that photo to reel you in and manipulate you. Women are all hoes and tricks

Do not reply. Block her everywhere and focus on your family. This is a no-brainer. How old are you?

This post was edited by Lasagnacat on Apr 30 2019 04:57pm

Lol way to old to be having this problem but regardless of my feelings for her i have kept my distance as i should and not contacted her

It is not okay! But, you can really talk about this to your wife. She will handle you and understand you. She will know what you are going through. ;)

Here’s your choice:

1. If you love your current wife and want to be with her and your unborn child forever then don’t talk to that x and let it go.

2. If you see yourself with your x over your wife and unborn child and I mean long fucking term forever style and not a quick fuck because it’s been ten years and it’s fun and risky, then go back to your x and woo her back. Know that if you choose this option, your world probably will crash back down on you and not only will you have an x girlfriend again because that shit never works out, but now you’ll have an x wife and child support to pay.

This post was edited by Greater on Jun 20 2019 11:52am