They don't function psychologically as men. They are more emotionally driven, because men are physically stronger and also because of stereotypical psychological habits since we arised from nature. We haven't learned to interact properly yet. So don't worry too much about it. Be glad you have a heart, pick up the million pieces and glue it back together with good food and exercise.
Screw in more safety measures in the future, don't let'em in too quickly.
This is the price humanity pays for not teaching any damn thing about psychology, personal development and self leadership in schools. This creates a lot of unwilling psychopaths because many people don't understand themselves or their own emotions, that includes women too. And they can be double ruthless when it comes to men. There's always a reason though; Many women get treated badly by men and gives up. Maybe you're a victim of such a woman.
Look at life as one big war. You may have lost one battle, but not the entire war. Recoup your losses and get back to the front line. And start listening to Motörhead, make you a little more stalwart to these women. Not saying you shouldn't care, but you can't let them in too fast.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3HTeBUJIMM