Michaelboy, you are one of the sweetest guys I’ve ever met and I appreciate everything you’ve done for me. But, I’m not really looking to get into a relationship or anything serious right now. I’ve thought about it and right now I just want to stay friends. I still like you and all, I just don’t want to get too attached because I’m about to get super busy with school and work 40 hours a week. I also just got out of a year and a half relationship, so I kinda want some time to think on things. I will still talk to you every day and I’ll hangout with you when we’re not busy, but I just want to stay friends for now



This girl definitely would probably be down in the future right? Sounds like she’s at least interested

This came after a day of not talking and she randomly texted me at like 1 in the morning asking why I just stopped talking to her blah blah and then we talked some and this came of it

Changed my rl name for safety purposes

This post was edited by MichaelBoy on Aug 26 2018 06:56am

I'd say so.

I believe what she is saying is fair as well as it will be good for the both of you to sort things out. (if you need to as well)

With school/work and out of a relationship, that's a lot to hash out. Give it time and keep in touch with her. Mentioned that she will still talk to you everyday - that's a great thing for you as well.

Wish you the best of luck. Stay positive!

After not talking for a day. She felt like she got .. dependant? And she wanted to make it clear she wants a barrier.

Future looks promising, but don't push for anything. Just enjoy her friendship.

Just be nonchalant. It sounds like you tried pushing for a relationship? Don't do that. Just focus on having fun and creating good memories. Let her come to you at her own pace and she can bring that up when she feels she's ready for the attached label.

I don't think she is that into you. She just being nice.

We have only talked for like a week

And no I haven’t pushed the relationship thing at all really

Sometimes she’s interesting to text and other times it’s like talking to a rock

And it pissed me off she turned off her read receipts.

They started off then they were on now she has then off again

I’m pretty sure it might have something to do with her ex boyfriend I think they still talk and I think she leaves them off and her location on snap so she can avoid talking to him maybe idk

I do like her and wouldn’t mind dating her just not sure the best course to go for that end game

She isn't into you at all.

Think this would be a good time to work on your fortitude and project your patience.

“More smiling, less worrying. More compassion, less judgment. More blessed, less stressed. More love, less hate.”

gl op

She's probably having second thoughts as others said, there is obviously something going on on her end.

I agree. Just be positive, genuine, flirty and infinitely patient.

I would just be like. "Well, No worries, I'm not really interested in just friendship. But, I'd totally love to meet up with you sometime for drinks in the future. I have so much fun being around you. Let me know if you change your mind about things."

Then, i'd just let it go. And move on. Keep dating other women. But I wouldn't be surprised at all if she hit you up in the future.

She'll respect you a lot if you handle things like that, and will likely become more attracted to you.

This post was edited by GLYC123 on Aug 26 2018 07:49pm

She's a nice girl friend zoning you. stay in contact only if you're looking for a completely non sexual friend.