I'm so scared of STD's that i intentionally avoid girls... but it strengthens my resolve to stay a virgin. Is sex really worth risking health and/or children?

Only you can answer that question. Risk is something we all take at some point in our lives. However, risk doesn't mean recklessness. You can calculate your risk by making informed decisions. Research everything you can about how to protect yourself from stds. In addition, you can mitigate your risk by selecting partners that are not promiscuous. However, that is a problem in itself, because most people are that way. You have to talk to people and figure out what are their values. For example, there are people out there that are saving themselves for marriage or afraid to have sex too. But they could lie. That is what we live with everyday, and that is unpredictablility. Nothing is for certain. Even with all the right moves, you can still fail. But you must overcome this fear in order to move forward in your life. And you don't need sex to overcome this fear. You have to be at peace with yourself and whatever you are going to do.

This post was edited by Malignanttumor666 on Aug 20 2018 09:37pm

/clap

No it isn't.
Sex is just sex.
You won't be able to avoid girls all your life.

One day, you will invite a girl at your house.
Just as your friend.
And she will go on your bed.
And she will start watching porn.
And you will have sex with her.

You aren't able to avoid girls.
Because girls want you and may even trap you.

You should rather choose a girl, and have sex with her.
With a condom.

Choose a girl, man.
Choose a girl.
No matter if she is ugly or stupid.
Choose a girl.
You need it.
You need to pick a girl from the street and place her in your bed.
That's it.
You will know what is sex.

You can't escape that.
Your brain refuses to scape that.

Choose a girl.
Or a girl will choose you.



I advise you to choose a Russian girl if you can.
And marry her.
And love her.
Because Russians deserve love.

This post was edited by Chevaucheur on Aug 21 2018 03:16am

Somethings are worth taking risks for. If you don't believe it is worth the risk don't do it.

Wear a condom?

Also don't fuck a random girl at a strip club or something. Find a girl you really like and trust. Why waste your time on anyone else?

well put

bruh unless u tryna fuck some sluts you will be fine. just smell the roses before you lay down the pipe and your good

Some important stuff you all SHOULD know:
-Never trust a girl when you ask for her for previous history of STD's. Even if they have/had they will probably lie to you!
-You should check for warts (HPV infection) or blisters (HSV-2). Be careful because even though condom protects your penis from these, oral sex can make you catch those virus, even if you dont see warts. Also head and neck cancers associated with HPV are increasing world wide!!
-Bad smell often indicates vaginitis (bacterial infection). Bread-like smell often indicates infection by Candida.
-NOT all infections give smell changes!
-The worst infections you can get are HIV or Hepatitis B. And those infections don't show any symptoms until disease is advanced.


Most of all, stay safe. Use a condom if you dont know the girl. Even if u know the girl, use a condom. If you are beggining a relashionship both of you should get full STD's checkup before you could go without a condom. (remember that if any member cheats, even if you dont wanna tell your partner, PLEASE make sure you didnt caught STD before ruining even more your partner)

Don't be silly.. wrap your willy!