It's possible she's just using him for attention. Some people can be vain like that.

I actually disagree with playing hard to get.

Wear your heart on your sleeve (in a not suuuuper overbearing kind of way at first). Playing hard to get is a game.
It's better to just have a life of your own, and see women/a potential relatipnship as a supplement to an already great lifestyle.
Something that you want, but don't need.

The better option, I believe, is to just be upfront. If she doesn't reciprocate or doesn't care, just be nonchalant and do a take away.

"Well, I'd love to meet you out for drinks sometime, let me know if you ever change your mind"

After awhile, and after dating for years, you get tired of women that just aren't that into it, or feel "eh" about things. It's infinitely more fun to be with women that are super interested. The twist is, by doing it this way, you aren't burning bridges, and women can change their opinion about things (who knows what else or who else might be going on in her life right now). She could turn into one of those women that are super interested in the future. When you handle things like a mature adult, she'll remember that.

Also. Women are well aware of all the games. If you're using them, you just risk turning her off if she senses you're being completely inauthentic. Plus, it's just easier, natural and better to be more genuine (in a healthy way).

This post was edited by GLYC123 on Jul 30 2018 08:46pm

Too much cunt out there to bang, if she is playing games leave her be.

I would pass on her for sure.

Ask her out for dinner or a drink. If she blows you off or treats the situation the same, move on

seems like shes iso some attention or attracted to you in a way maybe she isnt the best with conversations or isnt one of them girls that NEEDS her phone or depending how the messages end maybe just unsure how to answer and leaves it be. Just ask her out to a movie food etc and if she says yes get to know her see what she likes ask if shes attracted to you for a relationship or just fun etc, depending on the girl could be friendship, a fling , or relationship. just be Direct with her Ask her out if she shys away just become friends and move on , and sometimes being friends blossoms out to being a relationship some girls are odd like that (annoying yes but some are like that).

shes looking for a hook up. running cold is what you do to a tinder date not someone u want a relationship with. shes hot when shes horny, cold when she thinks better of it. proceed accordingly.

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This post was edited by GOSUJOHN on Sep 15 2018 07:44am

Dude that has two word... Fishing bait.

Some girls just feel insecure about themselves that they find comforting knowing they have somebody who really cares for them. They dont want you at all but they also dont want you to forget about them. So when you are about to forget her, they throw you the bait, you come, say what they wanna hear, and when you are too close, they throw the sea again.

Just give them what they are not expecting.. silence.

Deep