Quote (Era @ Jun 8 2018 02:33am)
I'll try to keep it short for you guys..
Been with her for over 2 years and I got with her because she's probably the most loving and kind girl that I ever met. The issue that I have is that sometimes I feel like there's no future for us. As in like.. I feel like I'm the only adult in this relationship. I'm 25 and currently working a full time job that pays well and just got my first car, while she's 26 and just finishing up college. I pretty much had to beg her for her to get a job. She doesn't have her drivers license, or pretty much have any drive/motivation to do things that I feel like she should be doing as an adult. I think what I'm trying to say is that I'm getting to the point in my life where I'm starting to think about marriage but I have doubts about if she's the one. She also has terrible anxiety and depression so every time I try to talk to her about an issue (more recently her weight), she kinda closes herself off and doesn't talk or just cries. And it's frustrating because I'm trying my best to talk to her about these issues but most of the time it doesn't really go anywhere
Find someone who shares your goals. If you want your partner to have a job, drivers license, etc. then thats your preference. If thats not what she wants then she is not your preference. Pretty Simple
When I started dating my current gf, Things like boating licenses came up, She doesnt drink so shes usually the DD on the road. Which means while friends and us are drinking, She can drive. So the deal was I pay for it shell get it. Bam! Compromise. She has her boating license and now i dont have to worry about getting a DUI on the water. Win win. just an example though.
This post was edited by ultrabandit on Aug 7 2018 05:06pm