Quote (jtreller1 @ Apr 24 2018 07:02am)
My girlfriend of 2 months just broke up with me last week, it wasn't for any reason between an of us, she said she loved me and i said i loved her before she left but her reasoning was that she wasn't ready to commit to such a serious relationship because of uni and work and life in general, she just wants to focus on herself.
Is it selfish of me to just want her back and if I was able to what would be the best way, just keep being her friend till she decides its the right time? I'm scared that although she said she loved me the love is going to fade, or just turn into a love you have for a friend and I can't bear to watch her move on to someone else down the line, i know i'm going to wait for her but I know that if she does it will ruin me even more than the breakup itself. I do have a tendency of thinking too much into things and i don't feel like she would but there's always the thought on my mind that we will never be together.
I know 2 months isn't the longest period of time, but i loved every minute i spent with her and i don't think i'll be able to stop thinking of us together for a very long time.
pretty much i just want to know if I should stop thinking about the possibility of us being together or i should keep some sort of hope it will work out.
just be friends. its the best route to go.
be friends, and see where the future goes. overthinking is always no bueno