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May 9 2018 12:22pm
Do yourself a favor and stop messaging her. You’re just torturing yourself. I understand this may be difficult for you but there is no good to come of it. As someone said earlier, remain friendly in the event you have to interact, but move on. Don’t get bitter, it makes you look petty and childish. Take your time to grieve the loss of your relationship if you need. After that, move forward, don’t look back, live your life.
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May 9 2018 02:48pm
Two months isn't even long enough for me to bother remembering someone's last name...
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May 9 2018 06:51pm
Cut off all contact with her, or else the feelings will eat at you.
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May 9 2018 08:55pm
Quote (jtreller1 @ Apr 24 2018 07:02am)
My girlfriend of 2 months just broke up with me last week, it wasn't for any reason between an of us, she said she loved me and i said i loved her before she left but her reasoning was that she wasn't ready to commit to such a serious relationship because of uni and work and life in general, she just wants to focus on herself.

Is it selfish of me to just want her back and if I was able to what would be the best way, just keep being her friend till she decides its the right time? I'm scared that although she said she loved me the love is going to fade, or just turn into a love you have for a friend and I can't bear to watch her move on to someone else down the line, i know i'm going to wait for her but I know that if she does it will ruin me even more than the breakup itself. I do have a tendency of thinking too much into things and i don't feel like she would but there's always the thought on my mind that we will never be together.

I know 2 months isn't the longest period of time, but i loved every minute i spent with her and i don't think i'll be able to stop thinking of us together for a very long time.

pretty much i just want to know if I should stop thinking about the possibility of us being together or i should keep some sort of hope it will work out.


just be friends. its the best route to go.

be friends, and see where the future goes. overthinking is always no bueno
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May 14 2018 09:46pm
Sounds like she wants to keep having sex with more guys. Most you get women are obsessed with the variety factor that permiscuous sex entails
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May 14 2018 09:48pm
Quote (Cambridge @ May 9 2018 01:48pm)
Two months isn't even long enough for me to bother remembering someone's last name...


100% this
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May 21 2018 10:09pm
Quote (me1 @ May 9 2018 08:55pm)
just be friends. its the best route to go.

be friends, and see where the future goes. overthinking is always no bueno



This is false the odds of that working are pretty slim he’s going to sit there trying to impress her and overthinking every action she makes. Most likely he will lose a friend/girlfriend in the end. Don’t keep up hope that something will happen or you will lose yourself m8 there’s millions of other chicks in this world that will want to be with you and you will want to be with them so don’t waste your time on a chance.. if she wanted to be with you she would be with you delete this chicks number and lose all contact with her it will make it a lot easier on yourself

This post was edited by Seejay on May 21 2018 10:12pm
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May 22 2018 11:54am
Play the reverse psychology card. Tell her you're glad she decided to split because it gave you time to think it through and it was ultimately the better decision. Tell her you are happy being free and you've been out mingling and meeting all sorts of new people and making connections, branching out.

Really you shouldn't sweat it though. Two months isnt shit. To be saying I love you at 2 months is some middle school playground crappola.
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May 23 2018 07:57am
2 months?

move on she already has

and i say this not trying to be mean

but she broke up with you for a reason and it wasnt so she could work on her self something had to of happened in those 2 months that made her seriously choose to break up with you

now that does not mean any negitivity on you but something had to of happed for her to just out of the blue to you say she wants to break up
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May 24 2018 11:42am
Quote (Happypuppy @ Apr 24 2018 08:31am)
Adopt a puppy
Doges love you forever :wub:

Until they croke and leave behind a hole of sadness that can never be filled again

/edit:/sidenote:vouch the lovato song suggestion entries

This post was edited by Darkblue on May 24 2018 11:43am
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