Quote (AdamUK @ Mar 2 2018 08:47am)
I have just recently split up with a girl who was perfect on paper, it's somewhat confusing and not nice at all to be on the hurting end,
especially when they're innocent and can't do any wrong. I do feel now I understand peoples actions more, experience good and bad is always good for perspective.
I have been madly in love with someone who emotionally and pshysically abused me.
I have been in love with someone who was no longer in love with me.
I have fell out of love with a girl who treated me like a king, never did any wrong, etc.
its not confusing at all.
theres that scene in the matrix where he explains why "life" is hard. they tried to give us perfect little hapy bubbles but we rejected it. we cant just appreciate perfection...for perfections sake.
most people who are "perfect" on paper run into one of three problems...
1, they eventually show that human trait that breaks the image you hold and you dont ever get over it.
2, you get bored. perfect means no surprises or chaos. its very monotonous cause you know what to expect and when. even if its expecting to be shocked at every turn of the way. eventually it dulls and isnt as shiny and fun/new.
3, your human trait pops up and you start ruining things because you cant accept "perfection"
besides, truth be told no ones perfect ever and the those little imperfections are what make for a well rounded person.
as for my OWN experiences, very little. i dont do "relationships" or dating. i dont like people in my space or demanding my time or even really just wanting to be around me all the fucking time. i stick to my hookups and keep it that way.