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Feb 18 2018 04:17am
We are in a realationship for about 8 years.
The last 7 years....we had sex almost every day...
She got pregnant..we still had sex almost every day till 8. Month of pregnancy

Anyway... the child is born ...
4 months atm...I love my little Princess

But my girlfriend dont want any sex since the birth....
4months without sex ...i asked her many times about that .she always tell me shes tired of the whole day with the baby and other stuff like that

What should I do now?
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Feb 18 2018 04:20am
what did you do when you were 14?
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Feb 18 2018 04:22am
Quote (Condemn @ Feb 18 2018 11:20am)
what did you do when you were 14?


Lol..playing diablo 2 xD why?
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Feb 18 2018 05:10am
I experienced a very similar situation and these things helped

Make her feel wanted/ beautiful. After giving birth women can still be a hormonal mess as the pregnancy wreaks havoc on their body. By ensuring her that she is still wanted and or beautiful you can help her esteem.

Help around the house a little more.
Up until I was a single dad I didn’t get how much actual work goes into kids and maintaining the household and working. Even on off days from work it’s exhausting, helping out with simple chores might help take the load off and could be rewarding for you.

Ensure that she gets some time away/ to her self.

In addition to these things strong communication can help. Talk to her and explain that you know things won’t be the way they used to be, but you still have needs as well.

This post was edited by Captain87 on Feb 18 2018 05:13am
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Feb 18 2018 11:38am
She gave birth four months ago she probably is just legitimately tired. She’s probably getting up every few hours to breast feed or pump. Surely you didn’t think sex every day would come right back
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Feb 18 2018 03:31pm
Quote (AllisonWonderland @ Feb 18 2018 12:38pm)
She gave birth four months ago she probably is just legitimately tired. She’s probably getting up every few hours to breast feed or pump. Surely you didn’t think sex every day would come right back


Ii think he did
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Feb 18 2018 05:18pm
Quote (AllisonWonderland @ Feb 18 2018 12:38pm)
She gave birth four months ago she probably is just legitimately tired. She’s probably getting up every few hours to breast feed or pump. Surely you didn’t think sex every day would come right back


Quote (Xistz @ Feb 18 2018 04:31pm)
Ii think he did


Don't think that he thought everyday, from what he posted, just that after four months it would be greater than 0.
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Feb 20 2018 05:24am
It is very exhausting having a baby though. She probably is genuinely tired. Or is she hiding post-partum depression? Just a couple suggestions.
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Feb 20 2018 09:55pm
Per my wife, she could have postpartum depression or she could be insecure about her body.
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