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Jan 5 2018 01:15am
Hello Love Line,

I used to use this thread of D2JSP for relationship advice back when I was in high school and it guided me pretty well.

I now want to give back where I can.

I now have over 4+ years experience as a counselor and would like to help any individuals that have any questions.

So please, ask away, I'm willing to help where I can.

This post was edited by soldier999 on Jan 5 2018 01:15am
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Jan 5 2018 05:03pm
how to deal with loneliness after a break up ?
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Jan 6 2018 02:26am
Quote (T9000 @ Jan 5 2018 06:03pm)
how to deal with loneliness after a break up ?


This is the question I think I hear the most.

I also think it is one of the best things you can learn to do after a break up.

Love yourself.

You cannot be in a real relationship without loving yourself first. You need to do things that stimulate you growing with yourself again.

For example,

1. Go to the movies by yourself
2. Go to dinner by yourself
3. WORK OUT
4. Find a hobby that you've wanted to do
5. Feel comfort in being alone

Before you get into a relationship, you have to know who you are, what you love, what you hate, what you can tolerate.

You have to be stable. Find someone who can love you for who you are.

Not someone that can fix you.

That is the key.

So work on building a relationship with yourself before you work on building relationships with others.
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Quote (soldier999 @ Jan 6 2018 12:26am)
This is the question I think I hear the most.

I also think it is one of the best things you can learn to do after a break up.

Love yourself.

You cannot be in a real relationship without loving yourself first. You need to do things that stimulate you growing with yourself again.

For example,

1. Go to the movies by yourself
2. Go to dinner by yourself
3. WORK OUT
4. Find a hobby that you've wanted to do
5. Feel comfort in being alone

Before you get into a relationship, you have to know who you are, what you love, what you hate, what you can tolerate.

You have to be stable. Find someone who can love you for who you are.

Not someone that can fix you.

That is the key.

So work on building a relationship with yourself before you work on building relationships with others.


good stuff i will do this.

ive been wanting to start a journal on how i feel and how my last relationship ended and why and what i need to work on. any ideas on how this works? i feel silly writing down my feelings and shit like that...
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Jan 9 2018 09:28am
Why is it girls lose interest faster than lightning?
I've dated a few girls the past 6 months and they all seem to be so incredibly flaky. Is it just because they know they have so many options and even if you hit it off they think they can do better?
I feel like my ducks are in a row, show confidence, I'm relatively good looking and in shape, but yet its nearly impossible to get an attractive girls attention for more than a week
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Jan 9 2018 11:31am
Quote (Giannis @ 9 Jan 2018 16:28)
Why is it girls lose interest faster than lightning?
I've dated a few girls the past 6 months and they all seem to be so incredibly flaky. Is it just because they know they have so many options and even if you hit it off they think they can do better?
I feel like my ducks are in a row, show confidence, I'm relatively good looking and in shape, but yet its nearly impossible to get an attractive girls attention for more than a week


its just these girls nowadays.
all these fking social media are fking everything up.
pretty hard finding a loyal girl.
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Jan 9 2018 01:24pm
Quote (BlackTy @ Jan 9 2018 12:31pm)
its just these girls nowadays.
all these fking social media are fking everything up.
pretty hard finding a loyal girl.


yea finding a chick at a bar to pump and dump isn't an issue for me, the problem is finding a girl to be in a real relationship with is near impossible
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Quote (Giannis @ 9 Jan 2018 20:24)
yea finding a chick at a bar to pump and dump isn't an issue for me, the problem is finding a girl to be in a real relationship with is near impossible


true, never advised my friends looking for a partner in clubs or pubs. most of them are no relationship material.
"good" people seem to stay at home most of the time. probably looking netflix. maybe u should break into homes und look for people watching netlix, when everybody is in clubs/pubs? :P
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Jan 25 2018 01:47am
grow up and learn school fuck everybody 1 day maybe something will happen or maybe you do something for some1 good luck all

This post was edited by Franky003 on Jan 25 2018 01:53am
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