Soooo someone ive been pretty fond of for a long time and i started dating very recently when she made her trip down towards me... Unfortunately i wont be able to see her until the week of valentines day... I know it is hard and i expected it to be this hard. I'm trying to keep a positive mental attitude about it, but what are things you guys may suggest to help keep things way more flowing and a little easier so to speak.

Do Skype dates, always have an event to look forward to really. Skype dates are the best you can get until you can meet up in person. February will come soon enough.

This very much.

I did it, and after 8 months of dating long distance she moved in with me (Poland -> Belgium). That was almost 2 years ago and we're still together.

Thanks guys, i think im looking for anywheres from 6 months to a year me moving to her..

It sucks no doubt about it

I'd honestly kind of treat it like being in jail

When you do see your girl, put aside whatever other bullshit you got going on in your life and make sure she gets the best you, and avoid fights or negativity in general

Don't let her leave on bad terms when she does come visit

Should be easier though because you don't see her that often



P.S. Try to keep your hands out of the nookie jar

This post was edited by PurpleBuds on Dec 12 2017 03:23pm

why is it hard?

flirt in text, have phone sex

don't fight and make it harder

make plans. I never got what was hard about waiting for someone you're into

if it's hard find someone that is easy to wait for

Its rough being in a LDR, what i'd say is always be positive about it to each other, also hide the feelings of (oh I miss you so much; as it only makes things worst).
Try to schedule a skype date atleast once a week.
Do unexpected things, like send them something in the mail (a romantic letter, a stuffed animal) or get baked goods delivered to them.
It allows you to still thing about them but in a positive light which can be hard being so far apart.
Good luck!

There's an awesome website just search rabbit. It's like Skype (Has webcam and mic) but you can watch videos together through different platforms. I used it with Netflix, YouTube, and Dailymotion.

rabbit is what I got replaced with