Lmao

Some people are fragile from past emotional injuries

That doesn't make it your responsibility to comfort her about the same things over and over but keep in mind she is scared. Maybe unwarranted, maybe from your actions and vibes or maybe she's been hurt significantly.

It's a part of who she is until she changes so you'll need to communicate and prepare to leave or embrace it if it doesn't change.

We annoy each other in relationships that's just a part of the deal but if you're drawn to her in a strong way you'll find a way to make it work. It's all about compromise, as long as you're both open and kind you'll give a little and she'll give a little and it will afford you the opportunity to see how it goes.

Ps if she isn't into butt stuff she isn't the one

Maybe it’s the fact y’all broke up and got back together she thinks it’s a possibility again. Communication is key and you have to be able to tell her in a respectful manner how you feel about things and she has to be able to do the same. Also when you love someone sometimes the fact someone else had them for so long can make you get jealous. Obviously you had strong feelings for your ex if y’all were together so long. Could make her insecure. She shouldn’t harp on it though and I really hope you never tell stories about your ex lol

I think your posts are good advice but I can't help but wonder

your position on this?

Thank you! I have no problem reassuring her. There is no real issue. Just sometimes I feel like it's frustrating when I tell her constantly. Although in the last week or so its actually pretty much died down.



Lmao, no! I don't ever talk about my ex unless she asks. Which even then I try to steer away from.

A gesture of commitment always helps burn away any lingering insecurities of newer girlfriends. Try not to use your ex's name or even bring up the stories, scenarios, photos or anything that relates to your ex. I've done this with my current gf and it works great. If you catch yourself talking about a time with your ex, just use another word like "friend" "pal" or "buddy" instead of your ex's name. Takes a bit of training but helps show that your ex isn't on your mind much anymore.


Heard you make great sigs from Sjax. Also, do you know Clinton Loomis from Medford, Oregon?

Ty.

twice a week?
Sounds like you just need to reaffirm her twice a week.
From the sound if it, she is very insecure.
How much of an issue is it for you to twice a week keep her happy?
Let her know that you understand why her past causes her to react this way when she sees your past.
It will eventually calm down, I'm sure of it.

Yes! It actually already is calming down thank goodness. It definitely is worth it. This girl is actually incredible.

She was slightly insecure because she hadn't been in a relationship for 3 years.

Send me your ex, ill send your new gf pics of us banging, and shell move on.
If your ex is a true friend shell let this happen, for your benefit.

lmk ill PM you address and fee.

I’ve kind of been in this situation. I was engaged for awhile with girl who had the biggest boobs you’ve ever seen. We will call her tits mcdougal. We broke up probably 4 years ago. Fast forward to now and I’m happily married.

My wife has had moments where she was really concerned about what happened with tits mcdougal. At first it was really annoying and I didn’t want to answer her questions. It seemed easier to just blow it off, drink a beer and talk about something else.

My advice would be this, if you can’t stand to be away from her for a day then you should worry about how she feels. I never thought love at first sight was a thing, it really is though. If this is be case, be honest and tell her it was a thing in the past and you’re done with it. If she won’t acceot that as an answer it probably wasn’t meant to be.

If you enjoy time away from her then it doesn’t matter. Back to the drawing board you go.