Quote (JadeBlade23 @ Oct 16 2017 10:55pm)
So delete Facebook and tinder and talk to their faces, problem solved
majority of it is in person but there is still the random Facebook messaging and Tinderoni's. not saying online dating is all bad but clearly there is an advantage to being a woman
Quote (bitg_pj @ Oct 16 2017 10:59pm)
If you genuinely want a friend and can accept that and disconnect your feelings .... then fine.
But if you cannot stop your feelings or really just want to show her you are a “good guy” and can be what she wants ... just block her and move on with your life.
I used to be a beta that would be the shoulder to cry on when the douchebag treated her like shit ... no man deserves to be the cuck who is only good to whine about another dude to.
I'm not being emotionally dumped on, I get what you're saying.
The decision i'm faced with is should I commit more time to myself thus giving myself more opportunities to meet women who could be sexually attracted to me or should I invest my time with women who I know for certain aren't sexually attracted to me, but value me as a friend and want to spend time together. Women who I know for certain aren't sexually attracted me I am disconnected from emotionally, I'm not hanging onto hope or anything like that