Quote (UkrainianProtein @ Jul 3 2017 06:06pm)
Well she did ask if I was really ukrainian and we kept talking and I said something like my family is pretty lowkey about talking about my roots and what not and she went straight to asking if I was part of the mafia and if so then she wouldnt want anything to do with me. Anywho what a shame she was really hot. Idk man every situation with girls is hella different lol oh well off to the next one haha
Eh, just hang back. She may come back around when you quit putting in effort but it's not a guarantee.
And Yeah. There's a lot to dating.
The more attractive the woman is, the less you can do wrong. Same with her level of attraction for you.
If she's hot and on a dating site, shes getting her inbox blown up by guys constantly.
So maybe she was excited to see you, but she started talking to some new guy (s) who now she's really into.
I don't even bother with women that aren't excited to see me, it's not worth it. When I get some wishy washy response to me trying to make plans I just go "Alright, let me know if you change your mind! Later"
I don't whine, or act like a dick. I just immediately see it as their loss, without saying that (which would be arrogant). I'm just thinking, you have no idea what you just missed out on, and I genuinely feel that way.
Really, who wants to be with someone that isn't all about you.
Even if you manage to get them out, they're not going to be anywhere near as fun to hang out with as the woman whose always wondering what you're up to, and is excited that you asked.
There's Some things that you should change in your approach though.
Things like "I hope that we can hang out soon", it gives off a desparate vibe or makes it sound like you're way more into her than she's into you.
Especially after she's already been giving you plenty of "I'm busy" responses without her offering rescheduling times (which an interested woman would do) Dont go there.
Just use this line when asking them out, "When are you free to get together?", then you can play around with whatever days she's available.
And if she gives you an "I'm busy" response or saying "maybe" or telling you to call to confirm (which she WILL cancel on you by the way), just say, "How about you just get back in contact with me once you figure out your schedule, that way we can make definite plans then". Just twist the words around a bit. Don't give off a "I'm hurt" vibe, just be indifferent about it.
Really a big part of things is about just tweak your approach to show confidence, and to avoid talking her out of liking you (which is why talking for hours can be such a waste, plus it ruins the fun and mystery)
This post was edited by GLYC123 on Jul 3 2017 05:53pm