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I know! Gotta be Top G Nerds!

Bruh, I cannot express this enough but DO NOT exchange phone numbers before you have a solid first date.
Yeah I thought about it exchange # in chat if there is 2 hour Driving distance 100 Miles away. Why do I show up 2 hours drive and getting ghosted if we just promise to meet at a Mall at certain time through Dating App chats?
Perhaps if short distance within 1 hour travel is worth the risk not exchanging #s. Then again even with phone # they can still block n ignore you after traveling 2 hours to meet them.

i hear you need to sms 16times everyday for 3 month
before you can even see your date
Yeah many tricks the apps trying to make extra money on the Men. Good looking women on the apps have it easy they get so many likes n matches, mine is still empty lol.
I guess some people may?
Personally, I like to be fair on communication terms.
1) Match
2) Chat a bit to see if you vibe with each other
3) Pick a date
4) Go on date
5) If the date is nice for both people, exchange numbers
6) If the date wasn't great, be honest ASAP. Then unmatch (Nobody likes a boomerang match)
People giving out personal info in the first chat is just wild to me. (But I am also in my 30's, younger people may feel differently.)
Yeah great advice thanks!!!

Hopefully it’s short distance 1 to 1.5 hour travel, meeting in person just with chats and text on the apps takes some risk, hopefully the women will be serious about it and not ghosting n wasting my time going to meet them on a date.
Best success on grinder for me.
lol No thanks!
