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Jun 12 2018 04:25pm
You sound like you’re being used for companionship and money
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Jul 15 2018 02:42am
Quote (Happypuppy @ 13 Jun 2018 00:25)
You sound like you’re being used for companionship and money


Things are getting worse every day. I'm about to dump her in the next few days.
This girl just can't realize how deep into her own shit she is, and that I seem to be the only person on her side..
Thank you, guys. You've been more than helpful.
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Jul 15 2018 11:01am
Quote (Mindfield @ Jul 15 2018 01:42am)
Things are getting worse every day. I'm about to dump her in the next few days.
This girl just can't realize how deep into her own shit she is, and that I seem to be the only person on her side..
Thank you, guys. You've been more than helpful.


It will absolutely suck at first, but you'll be glad that you did with time. Not to say that she won't change for the better, but that could take years - if not decades.

Someone else out there is waiting for you without the drama and bs :) your life shouldn't be put on hold for someone who can't get her own life together.
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Jul 15 2018 07:19pm
Still fixated on her likely having borderline traits.
Either way, your options are basically:
Jump ship and face the waters, or stay and try to escape a submerged ship.
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Jul 25 2018 01:55am
We split up last Friday.
After the fight, we sat down and agreed this is going nowhere.
Good thing is we ended it with good feelings towards each other, as friends.
Anywho, moving on. Let's hope the next one will be the right one. :)
Cheers guys!
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Jul 26 2018 03:22am
Quote (Mindfield @ Jul 25 2018 07:55am)
We split up last Friday.
After the fight, we sat down and agreed this is going nowhere.
Good thing is we ended it with good feelings towards each other, as friends.
Anywho, moving on. Let's hope the next one will be the right one. :)
Cheers guys!


Good choice!
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Jul 27 2018 01:13pm
Quote (Mindfield @ Jul 25 2018 02:55am)
We split up last Friday.
After the fight, we sat down and agreed this is going nowhere.
Good thing is we ended it with good feelings towards each other, as friends.
Anywho, moving on. Let's hope the next one will be the right one. :)
Cheers guys!


Good for you, man.

I know what it's like to want to help someone you care about. But I learned a long time ago, people only change when they want to change.

Hope your next one is perfect.
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Aug 27 2018 06:52pm
I would never even get in situation with divorced women with kids.
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Aug 28 2018 01:25pm
Quote (Fankytore @ 28 Aug 2018 02:52)
I would never even get in situation with divorced women with kids.


I had really strong feelings for this woman. Taking care of her kids was never a problem for me. I loved her kids and they loved me.
Last week she called me and wanted to apologize, saying she made a huge mistake by splitting with me.
I was almost ready to discuss it when she admitted getting stoned and sleeping with some guy 3 days after we broke up.
That turned my mind upside down... I mean 3 days... seems like it was all planned.
So I told her she'll be just a memory in my mind and there's no chance of me getting back together with her. Was a tuff talk.

I'm a bit depressed now and feel betrayed, but also happy that I got rid of her. She was pure trouble.
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Aug 29 2018 07:14pm
As much as I want to contribute my own individual opinion, I feel it's already been shared quite vehemently. Save yourself. You are much better than this. The attraction you feel for this woman can and will be felt for someone much much better. Someone who will value your time as much as you value theirs.

Good luck


Edit: just saw you made the right choice. Kudos! It will be rough, but just be glad that you don't have years under your belt with this woman, like I did with mine. Time will heal you. Go out to clubs, public events, volunteer, vacation abroad. Be safe, and once again... good luck!

This post was edited by OverDoSex on Aug 29 2018 07:16pm
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