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May 15 2018 04:15pm
Quote (GetOnYourKnees @ May 9 2018 05:08pm)
Split up with my ex-fiancee of 8 years a few months ago, who I'd been with since I was 15, so I'm totally hopeless with dating. Anyway, girl (18 years old) I've only been on two dates with keeps texting about plans for the future, getting a house, dogs, kids etc...

Seems like she might turn out to be a clinger, but I like her a lot. Any advice? Am I right to panic? Or should I go along with it?


go along with it, and see where it goes. if you think you should back out, follow your guts. ALWAYS follow your gut. gut never lies.
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May 15 2018 05:08pm
How old are you?

It's not bad or wrong to express relationship and life plan desires even if they are only 18

Some people are open and/or just ramble about themselves and their desires/goals.

It's easy to paint some 18 year old a clinger in a one sided online -judge her- thread but without more info and context this just seems like some search for confirmation bias whether it's to dodge the "clinger" or get a few cyber back pats before you go balls deep in a 18 year old
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May 18 2018 02:57pm
Quote (Beowulf @ May 16 2018 12:08am)
How old are you?

It's not bad or wrong to express relationship and life plan desires even if they are only 18

Some people are open and/or just ramble about themselves and their desires/goals.

It's easy to paint some 18 year old a clinger in a one sided online -judge her- thread but without more info and context this just seems like some search for confirmation bias whether it's to dodge the "clinger" or get a few cyber back pats before you go balls deep in a 18 year old



I’m 23. You don’t think it’s kinda weird that she should be talking about marriage and children after one date? I should add that she was explicitly talking about me and her getting married, not just her getting married in general.

But nah, like I said I have almost no dating experience and have taken very little notice of girls of this age since I’ve been with someone else, so I wanted to get some advice on how to recognise any danger signs (which is what this forum is for, after all). Not up for wasting any more time on unstable girls
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May 18 2018 03:03pm
Quote (GetOnYourKnees @ May 18 2018 01:57pm)
I’m 23. You don’t think it’s kinda weird that she should be talking about marriage and children after one date? I should add that she was explicitly talking about me and her getting married, not just her getting married in general.

But nah, like I said I have almost no dating experience and have taken very little notice of girls of this age since I’ve been with someone else, so I wanted to get some advice on how to recognise any danger signs (which is what this forum is for, after all). Not up for wasting any more time on unstable girls


If this is a real situation why the hesitation or confusion?

Don't bang 18 year olds that talk about marriage and kids after one date no matter how horny you are

or enter the 18 for 18 sunken place. 18 years of child support for messing around with 18 year olds looking to play house right out the gate
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May 20 2018 12:47am
Nikka ima be real. Bang her up cuz thot wants it.

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May 20 2018 09:57am
I dont think shes crazy, maybe a little clingy. Honestly i just think the girl is young, and has a 1 sided idea of what a relationship is supposed to be and is rolling with it. Just be honest and tell her how you feel, you just got out of a long serious relationship, and maybe you want to take things a bit slower before you completely commit yourself to someone again.


She might not understand that, which wouldnt surprise me based of her youth and assumed inexperience in a serious relationship, and it might hurt her, so youll have to be careful with how you deliver it, but on the flip side, if she does understand, and is willing to take it day by day, you'll be better off, IMO


If all else fails, eat her ass.
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May 20 2018 12:03pm
@dominate This is solid advice, and as is @Beowulf first post above. I agree with this.

Good communication is required if you want to have easy and effortless dating experiences.

It was a first impression. Sometimes even really great people say some odd things. I'd suggest looking at the picture as a whole.Personally if I had a really great time and connection, I would take that risk. But if you don't want to see her again, then dont.
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May 21 2018 10:00pm
There’s only one way to tell m8 you gotta dick her down and see how clingy she really gets
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May 24 2018 03:34pm
Quote (Seejay @ May 21 2018 08:00pm)
There’s only one way to tell m8 you gotta dick her down and see how clingy she really gets


WTF LOL
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May 25 2018 09:18pm
Quote (Seejay @ May 22 2018 12:00am)
There’s only one way to tell m8 you gotta dick her down and see how clingy she really gets

By this point its too late she already picked out the wedding cake and you'll need to get a restraining order
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