Quote (T9000 @ Apr 25 2018 07:18pm)
not to put salt on an open wound but from my experience i had a girl say the same along the lines stuff of "focus on herself" instead of getting into a relationship with me even though we both liked each other. turns out she just meant she wants to play the field and hook up with multiple dudes. but couple years later we ran into each other and she wanted to be in a relationship with me. so you never know. but i didnt get together with her i dont play that shit
Eh. It happens, I wouldn't take it too harshly. Women could do it behind your back, I'd prefer a woman that did end things.
Been in similar situations with women coming around.
Honestly, not to give false hope, but it happens a good amount if you were a good guy and you shared a great connection. It's rare for men and women to really find great partners.
I've done similar things with not being into ut, but today, a lot of times I think i would give things a second go.
To Op. I'd stop reaching out to her. If she reaches out, fine. But ultimately she ended things. After you stated what you want, you need to give her the space to decide if she would like to continue things one day. For me, that means giving enough space where the possibility of you two never talking again unless she changes her mibd.
That's how I prefer to handle these things