I have prayed for you
If you examine the root of your fear of commitment, you can understand it and overcome it with gratitude for how it has served you. Your past experience has helped you survive, but now it is stopping you from thriving. If you are truly prepared to marry her, use this truth as a way to overcome your fear of commitment. I encourage you to see the future you want to create for yourself and for her and to do the work required to make it happen. By using your dreams and future as leverage you can lift the stones weighing you down from the past.
Fears are signs. We just need to know what they are signaling to us so we can understand them and let them go. Then we can more clearly see our truth and inner light, and we will know if something like marriage is the right move
This post was edited by RewtheBrave on May 18 2018 09:39am