Quote (Anton24 @ 15 Feb 2018 23:17)
I think you should just do it face to face. Be proud of who you are. If you think you're ready and want to engage someone on a deeper and more serious level, you've got to have that self-worth. Be direct. It's way better when you are transparent. If you're really young, games and the give and take, and the art of flirting is fun and works. As you approach women a bit older, it's all about how calm and assertive you are. And that stems from confidence.
Own it man. ;)
I agree. Meet with her and tell her what you feel you should tell her. Be open. And that's probably what's challenging about it: Making yourself vulnerable. You might get hurt. But you might also get loved back and that's a wonderful thing. Or to quote c.s.lewis:
To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.