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Feb 15 2018 04:14pm
There is this girl I have been playing with, and I don't really know if she is interested in me or not. We do talk with each other a lot though. I have been feeling love sick the past several month up to the point where it is affecting my personal life.

I was thinking of calling her up and asking if she can have a private call with me. I plan to say I enjoy the time I had with her and I want to get to know her better. Is this too direct?
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Feb 15 2018 04:17pm
I think you should just do it face to face. Be proud of who you are. If you think you're ready and want to engage someone on a deeper and more serious level, you've got to have that self-worth. Be direct. It's way better when you are transparent. If you're really young, games and the give and take, and the art of flirting is fun and works. As you approach women a bit older, it's all about how calm and assertive you are. And that stems from confidence.

Own it man. ;)
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Feb 15 2018 05:24pm
Quote (Anton24 @ 15 Feb 2018 23:17)
I think you should just do it face to face. Be proud of who you are. If you think you're ready and want to engage someone on a deeper and more serious level, you've got to have that self-worth. Be direct. It's way better when you are transparent. If you're really young, games and the give and take, and the art of flirting is fun and works. As you approach women a bit older, it's all about how calm and assertive you are. And that stems from confidence.

Own it man. ;)


I agree. Meet with her and tell her what you feel you should tell her. Be open. And that's probably what's challenging about it: Making yourself vulnerable. You might get hurt. But you might also get loved back and that's a wonderful thing. Or to quote c.s.lewis:


To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.
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Feb 15 2018 06:14pm
But what about firaga?
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Feb 15 2018 06:19pm
I can't meet her. Met her online. I know it feels weird and I kind of feel weird about it myself, but I have been having these really strong feelings.
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Feb 16 2018 02:22am
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I can't meet her. Met her online. I know it feels weird and I kind of feel weird about it myself, but I have been having these really strong feelings.


Can you imagine ar relationship with her? Do you know if she lifes near you?
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Feb 16 2018 04:49am
nvm just straight up asked her and it got awkward

couldnt sleep after that and now I am at the gym at 4am
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Feb 16 2018 05:14am
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nvm just straight up asked her and it got awkward

couldnt sleep after that and now I am at the gym at 4am


Wouldn't sweat it too much man. You take your shots and learn from them. My advice is the same. Gotta be direct.
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Feb 16 2018 07:20am
Don't appear to be needy and dont let her make the yes or no decision. It takes the fun out of the flirt for her.
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Feb 16 2018 08:19pm
Quote (Whalefood @ Feb 16 2018 06:49am)
nvm just straight up asked her and it got awkward

couldnt sleep after that and now I am at the gym at 4am


Man up nigga tell her she's hot and u finna get close

No this aint some bad guy advice it is real life advice on how to be a man and portray your thoughts without fear

Btw i never had gf before but general life advice son

This post was edited by BERRISWEET on Feb 16 2018 08:21pm
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