Quote (T9000 @ Jan 5 2018 06:03pm)
how to deal with loneliness after a break up ?
This is the question I think I hear the most.
I also think it is one of the best things you can learn to do after a break up.
Love yourself.You cannot be in a real relationship without loving yourself first. You need to do things that stimulate you growing with yourself again.
For example,
1. Go to the movies by yourself
2. Go to dinner by yourself
3. WORK OUT
4. Find a hobby that you've wanted to do
5. Feel comfort in being alone
Before you get into a relationship, you have to know who you are, what you love, what you hate, what you can tolerate.
You have to be stable. Find someone who can love you for who you are.
Not someone that can fix you.
That is the key.
So work on building a relationship with yourself before you work on building relationships with others.