Quote (Hugger @ Jan 4 2018 10:40pm)
That stuff may happen in the movies, but not in the real world.
It actually does.
Your bad boy analogy is nonsense. That might work in the short term, or with an incredibly insecure woman. But a woman with her shit together and that's a quality person? Nah.
If she doesn't think you care, she'll find someone that does. And when she does that, you'll be crying because you gave up a great woman by holding back, not being authentic and by playing games.
Women like bad boys because they're genuine and they speak their truth, they're confident and go for what they want. They don't like them because they're assholes.
I've never met a prick that's sustained a healthy long term relationship though. They don't have the skills for it, like conflict resolution and women do want a man that actually cares about them.
There definitely is a thing as being too nice and too much of a people pleaser. But being a genuine, nice guy with a spine and goals is where it's at. Women want an equal partner. That's who women are dying to meet.
I for one, value long-term healthy relationships, there's nothing like it when you can share your bad and good moments with a woman that just completely does it for you, nothing else compares.
This post was edited by GLYC123 on Jan 8 2018 02:25pm