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Jan 1 2018 09:00pm
me and my ex broke up maybe month or two ago after almost 5 years together, really hurting i drunk texted her that i miss her last night and i know it was not a good idea now i just feel pain all over again. how to get over this shit? my problem from the beginning was that i prioritized this relationship and now that its gone i feel like theres a hole. keep in mind i broke it off with her because i have my own relationship killers and baggage that just made the relationship shit.
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Jan 2 2018 02:45pm
As scummy and sad as it sounds, finding somone to fill the void is typically the best option. I’m sure she went on a sex rampage after being tied down for so long, they all do, that’s how they get over ya so fast.

This post was edited by Hugger on Jan 2 2018 02:45pm
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Jan 2 2018 03:03pm
sorry bro, best thing to do is to find someone else. she’s moved on and you should too. stay strong.
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Jan 2 2018 03:50pm
Quote (Hugger @ Jan 2 2018 03:45pm)
As scummy and sad as it sounds, finding somone to fill the void is typically the best option. I’m sure she went on a sex rampage after being tied down for so long, they all do, that’s how they get over ya so fast.


Who hurt you? lol
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Jan 2 2018 05:11pm
Time and effort to stay and do positive

Loss hurts, life hurts, and both are painful for all

people talk about filling the void with another person but I disagree. You're ready when you're ready and the other person deserves more

Get up every day and make your bed and take a shower. Follow a routine and stay active in your mind in your body and your community

you will meet other people and do new things. This is your hurt and your life don't feel pressured from others to do anything

Find the balance between the end of a chapter and the beginning of a new one where you aren't too hard on yourself but you also aren't complacent with misery and pity

Embrace love and kindness and release yourself from the negatives. Open heart and mind policy going forward because failure is always worth the risk
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Jan 2 2018 05:18pm
Quote (Saltburn @ Jan 2 2018 03:50pm)
Who hurt you? lol



I was the one they hooked up with shortly after changing status to “Single” :rolleyes:


This post was edited by Hugger on Jan 2 2018 05:25pm
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Jan 2 2018 05:41pm
Quote (Hugger @ Jan 2 2018 06:18pm)
I was the one they hooked up with shortly after changing status to “Single” :rolleyes:


Filling the void like that isn't for everyone though. Some people might regret it :mellow:
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Jan 2 2018 07:29pm
Quote (Saltburn @ Jan 2 2018 05:41pm)
Filling the void like that isn't for everyone though. Some people might regret it :mellow:



If she’s over him though and not talking to him like it’s nothing after 5 years. She’s doing extra curricular activities to fill the void.
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Jan 2 2018 07:47pm
Quote (Hugger @ Jan 2 2018 09:29pm)
If she’s over him though and not talking to him like it’s nothing after 5 years. She’s doing extra curricular activities to fill the void.



This person understands human behavior.


You put her on a pedestal and she found someone more sexually attractive, plain and simple.

As much as it sucks you need to learn to prioritize yourself first, tend to your own wants and needs first before your partners. It will have her dying to please you and win your attention.

When she knows she can get what she wants from you without having to give back it's never going to end well for you.

This post was edited by Hecht55 on Jan 2 2018 07:49pm
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This person understands human behavior.


You put her on a pedestal and she found someone more sexually attractive, plain and simple.

As much as it sucks you need to learn to prioritize yourself first, tend to your own wants and needs first before your partners. It will have her dying to please you and win your attention.

When she knows she can get what she wants from you without having to give back it's never going to end well for you.


You got it down to a T, Dude. :thumbsup:

This post was edited by Hugger on Jan 2 2018 07:58pm
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