my aunt did car living for several months
but she's a hard drug addict all her life

I'm sorry for you and her!

how would you shower?

I recommend living in a van down by the river.

u gotta get a job first

quit one of your jobs and drive for uber or deliver pizzas. get a weekly hotel room. you will get extremely depressed living in your carr and it will likely cost you one or both of your jobs.
save as much as you can even if it's not much. if you take care of you (getting a room, sleeping well and eating right and stuff) you will do great at work and probably work your way up
pretty fast. then you can get an apartment and pay off your car.
ive been where you are so im not just talking out of my butt. im still broke but i have my own place and things just keep getting better. if theres anything i learned, its that you gotta take care of yourself or you wont make progress.

get a shitty motel
i had to for a few weeks while moving once
was fun

Check out a YouTube'r Iamjake. He lives out of a jeep. It's depressing af. Shower at world gym. Still telling ya it's a bad idea unless you at least have a vw Westfalia, water purification with uv purification solar panels, power, a small flat screen and all the nice msr gear to make it comfy. Msr stoves are key.

A pet dog helps

i mean im the reason she had to live in a car
couldn't deal with it anymore
life was hell so i kicked her out

This post was edited by DCSS on Nov 23 2017 05:13am

I'm sorry because she turned into an addict. And because she forced you to make a hard choice between letting her ruin your life too or kicking her out. Sometimes the good choice looks cruel, and bad choice looks right, but there is a point where you can no longer help your addict relatives/friends... It was the good choice.