Quote (Anton24 @ Dec 2 2017 01:15pm)
It's actually really simple my man. Reaffirmation. Love is like investment; it's a long con, and not without its ups and downs, and rest assured, there will be both.
You have to be stoic and resolute in your response and constant reaffirmation until she wakes up one day over the fact you loved someone else. How long this takes is different from person to person.
You have to accept the fact you'll be annoyed, and that she has this ability to annoy in a fleeting fashion. One bad fight? Bam; the ex. One poorly-worded text or flippant response? Bam; the ex. She's testing you. It's important to be tested on this as well, because it's HER reaffirmation that matters. It's not that your reaffirmation of the past doesn't matter, it's that you only have yourself to challenge. She's new to the party, so she has to challenge you, because she's challenging herself. Does she add up? Will she be Tweeted about? Will she be loved.
When you are sympathetically sound and empathetic in your approach to a woman, you will come to these simple realizations.
It took me YEARS to get there my man, but keep your chin up, and assure her in a variety of ways, that you love her. Even if it's telling her the ex doesn't matter, and answering every question about the ex as truthfully and honestly as you can.
You'll be aiet brotha, I promise. If it don't kill you, it makes you stronger.
Yeah I pretty much have just reassured her and she is pretty much out of this phase! All is well now!
Quote (jilybean @ Dec 3 2017 11:52pm)
a hair stylist lol, scraping the bottom of the barrel LOL.
Her average income is currently at $3300 a month. She works at a high end salon in GP. But good try
The lowest I've seen her income was February which was still at $2600... If you're good, you can make good money