Quote (Kamahl16 @ Oct 13 2017 02:29pm)
Technology has changed thing, for sure. In the old days you'd probably court a smaller number of women and it would obviously be in person, not via cyber exchanges. Women are also far more liberated now and don't need to pursue men for resources as much as they used to, so the balance of power has shifted more in their favor.
Definitely appreciate that they just don't hold me high on their priority list, which is more than fair, they probably enjoy the attention more than anything while they pursue those they really want or hold close relationships that might even be negative to them, i.e. shitty exes, etc.
EDIT -- This is neither here nor there, but I gave this girl my number at my work the other day, she's a customer, not a coworker, which is kind of a big deal for me, I'm very shy and put myself out on a limb because she comes in frequently and it'd be embarassing if she shot me down and came in again, etc.
Anyways, she didn't text me for a few days, maybe 6-7 or so, and I was just telling myself internally, "maybe I gave her the wrong number on accident" in order to salvage self-esteem lol. She finally responds and we're talking for a bit and then she stops responding, so I'm thinking, "well fuck, oh well". Anyways, she comes in last night and she says she never got my most recent messages and I check my ghetto third party "Text Now" app and it says I sent them but she shows me her phone and never got them.
So I gave her my other number and we are talking more now. Hopefully this one works out lol.
Best wishes brother
Hopefully it blossoms into something incredible