Quote (Trevor121090 @ Oct 8 2017 12:00pm)
I've been trying to get her To keep a voice recorder or some kind of camera on her, but she's just so emotionally drained from everything and just won't try. How do you help someone who has just given up? He says plenty that would throw him under the bus in person, but she isn't trying hard enough.. I understand being afraid of the guy, but she won't feel safe unless he's in prison. And even then he seems to have connections. As far as legal, we have gone to detectives and the police and they just keep saying there is no proof. If they would just get a search warrant and look into his phone and laptop they would have it. He knows to delete everything, but I'm sure they could find a way to find something.
get a restraining order that only allows him to contact her based on the kid
always have witnesses for interactions
go to court when he breaks the restraining order
It's not fair but excuses don't solve the situation you have to play the legal game to handle this legally