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Sep 16 2017 01:33pm
I'm getting married June 2018! My best friend is my best man and he's deploying to Bahrain in about 2 weeks. Heres the situation tho. He proposed to his girlfriend about a week ago (and didn't really tell anyone including me and his parents until the week before) and is already looking at wedding venues. He knows our close friends are already hard on getting time off next year to go to my wedding and I'm 90% sure he and his now fiance are preparing to get married next year around the same time as us (+ or - a few months). He's extremely selfish so this doesn't surprise me much.

Do you guys think that proposing to your girlfriend and getting married around the same time as your best friend is okay? I think he should wait a bit longer after our wedding. Maybe I'm just being silly.


Let me know =\
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Sep 16 2017 07:18pm
Normally i'd say propose a while after, but he's being deployed, so....
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Sep 16 2017 07:37pm
sorry for both of your losses

you're friends so either communicate openly and honestly or stop being friends

This post was edited by Beowulf on Sep 16 2017 07:38pm
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Sep 16 2017 08:38pm
Don't be selfish focus on your self. And not him.

Your wedding will be about you at the end of the day.

And it would be selfish if you to try and hold the attention before or after the months of getting married.

He's clearly on a time crunch. So let him do what's easiest. Your time will be spent more wisely if it's on you vs him.
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Sep 16 2017 09:01pm
Ur silly
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Sep 17 2017 09:10pm
Break up with your girlfriend since you're clearly into him
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Sep 19 2017 09:17pm
Silly goose
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Sep 23 2017 08:17pm
Quote (Kath @ Sep 16 2017 08:38pm)
Don't be selfish focus on your self. And not him.

Your wedding will be about you at the end of the day.

And it would be selfish if you to try and hold the attention before or after the months of getting married.

He's clearly on a time crunch. So let him do what's easiest. Your time will be spent more wisely if it's on you vs him.


Pretty much.
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Sep 24 2017 11:54am
You do you
Let him worry about his wedding
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Sep 24 2017 12:09pm
Your wedding can move, his cant, hes def the dick
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