Quote (handlewithnocare @ Sep 24 2017 09:16am)
meh i guess i just do it the old way.
we had a date and were talking frequently but weren't "dating" so that's what his excuse was
i definitely made it awkward when i approached him about it but idgaf.
i was nothing but sweet as fuck to him the whole time too lol. maybe he'll think "oh shit i didn't really give him a fair chance" down the road and i get that "what's up" text later that i can completely ignore, but who knows. i will move on and improve myself and he'll just go through endless failed relationships and drink every day working two jobs going nowhere in life.
i am better than that :rolleyes:
I'm not much for the approach hostile confrontation type stuff
I try to stay positive and always accept a relationship gone bad at any stage as incompatible and then spend some time by myself figuring out why, what they did that I didn't like/don't want and what I did that could have been done differently or seen differently by the other
I like to look at my life as a story where all of the chapters matter. So I drop the bad and hold on tight to the good and try to always learn and grow which will hopefully land me where I was always meant to land
My main advice would be don't be bitter about what happened just look forward to what might happen and within that you're actually allowing it to happen