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Sep 24 2017 10:02am
Quote (handlewithnocare @ Sep 24 2017 03:23am)
so yeah this isn't going to work out at all

i remain unsurprised


:(
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Sep 24 2017 10:05am
Quote (handlewithnocare @ Sep 24 2017 10:51am)
no but he did go hang with another guy same night as he spent time with me after saying he's going to eat with family.

then implied that he said we'd probably just be friends at some point which didn't happen

w/e, his loss. i'm a fantastic person and would do anything for my s/o, literally anything, and i'm not a cheat or liar. so if he's gonna fuck around talking to other guys same day as he was out drinking with me then he can have fun and be single and date around all he wants lol. he's already had a bunch of relationships that failed including an engagement and he's 21 -- there's a common denominator there so i'm just glad i got to avoid being a statistic to him sooner than later.


Youll find a nice boy, you dont need that
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Sep 24 2017 10:09am
Quote (Beowulf @ Sep 24 2017 12:27pm)
gone are the days of universally understood descriptions of relationship statuses

there was a time not seeing anyone meant literally not seeing anyone

nowadays it could be tri-weekly gangbangs and 4 weekly tinder hookups

hopefully your next one goes better



Im not seeing anyone if you know what i mean


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Sep 24 2017 10:16am
Quote (Beowulf @ Sep 24 2017 08:57am)
gone are the days of universally understood descriptions of relationship statuses

there was a time not seeing anyone meant literally not seeing anyone

nowadays it could be tri-weekly gangbangs and 4 weekly tinder hookups

hopefully your next one goes better


meh i guess i just do it the old way.
we had a date and were talking frequently but weren't "dating" so that's what his excuse was

i definitely made it awkward when i approached him about it but idgaf.
i was nothing but sweet as fuck to him the whole time too lol. maybe he'll think "oh shit i didn't really give him a fair chance" down the road and i get that "what's up" text later that i can completely ignore, but who knows. i will move on and improve myself and he'll just go through endless failed relationships and drink every day working two jobs going nowhere in life.

i am better than that :rolleyes:
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Sep 24 2017 10:18am
Quote (handlewithnocare @ Sep 24 2017 11:16am)
meh i guess i just do it the old way.
we had a date and were talking frequently but weren't "dating" so that's what his excuse was

i definitely made it awkward when i approached him about it but idgaf.
i was nothing but sweet as fuck to him the whole time too lol. maybe he'll think "oh shit i didn't really give him a fair chance" down the road and i get that "what's up" text later that i can completely ignore, but who knows. i will move on and improve myself and he'll just go through endless failed relationships and drink every day working two jobs going nowhere in life.

i am better than that :rolleyes:


The shade though, try not to dwell too much on the salt, hes a dick but if youre bitter about it itll spill into the next one
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Sep 24 2017 10:23am
Quote (handlewithnocare @ Sep 24 2017 09:16am)
meh i guess i just do it the old way.
we had a date and were talking frequently but weren't "dating" so that's what his excuse was

i definitely made it awkward when i approached him about it but idgaf.
i was nothing but sweet as fuck to him the whole time too lol. maybe he'll think "oh shit i didn't really give him a fair chance" down the road and i get that "what's up" text later that i can completely ignore, but who knows. i will move on and improve myself and he'll just go through endless failed relationships and drink every day working two jobs going nowhere in life.

i am better than that :rolleyes:


I'm not much for the approach hostile confrontation type stuff

I try to stay positive and always accept a relationship gone bad at any stage as incompatible and then spend some time by myself figuring out why, what they did that I didn't like/don't want and what I did that could have been done differently or seen differently by the other

I like to look at my life as a story where all of the chapters matter. So I drop the bad and hold on tight to the good and try to always learn and grow which will hopefully land me where I was always meant to land

My main advice would be don't be bitter about what happened just look forward to what might happen and within that you're actually allowing it to happen
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Sep 24 2017 10:35am
Just start blowing yourself in front of him and his friends to let him know what hes missing
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Sep 24 2017 11:15am
gay thread is gay
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Sep 24 2017 01:46pm
Sorry he ended up being on a different page than you. You’ll meet a better match
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Sep 24 2017 01:48pm
Quote (AllisonWonderland @ Sep 24 2017 04:16pm)
Sorry he ended up being on a different page than you. You’ll meet a better match



Weird, i give you the same advice and get reported

Not cool man
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