Quote (GLYC123 @ Aug 20 2017 10:32pm)
Eh, I get wanting to get a direct answer. But I feel like sometimes it's best just to have a carefree attitude with no pressure in situations like this. Don't pressure women to make decisions, because women fall in love slowly over time, I prefer to love women in a way that they feel free. If they aren't reciprocating, hey, that's fine, maybe one day in the future we can make things work.
I just speak my mind, and let them know what I want.
"Look, I would really like to see you again, but it just doesn't sound like we're on the same page. I'm looking for something romantic with someone that doesn't hold back. Let me know if you ever feel the same. "
I wouldn't friendzone a woman if you possibly want to date her. Why? You said it yourself you didn't know what you wanted at first. It's okay for women not to know that at first either.
Course, it's your life, you make your decisions. Im.not sayin what i did is wrong, its just a different approach from what i like. If you truly just want her as a friend, don't view her as a romantic prospect, the think she's going to be too much trouble, that's fine. I'm just showing you another option to add to your toolbelt for future occurences, as situations similar to this, will pop up several times, and sometimes these women do come back with full force and are chasing you.
And who knows, maybe this woman will still do the same to you. I could see it happening based on all of this.
That's basically what I think and did, I told her , it's ok, you don't have to answer,
Just to let you know, you act confusing and this is why i ask you so directly.
Also told her that I like her, and it don't care what ever the answer will be, Il be happy to be her friend or what ever.
"Free food" came out too, because once again she wanted to see a movie , and I told her sure no problem, you invite me?
And she actually payed for me.
But had to
Buy popcorn cuz I hate people pay for me lol.
This post was edited by BigBalaBoom on Aug 20 2017 11:07pm