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Aug 16 2017 05:59am
Quote (BigBalaBoom @ Aug 15 2017 11:57pm)
Thx for the replies guys, got me another point of view now.


Is it possible that she's just using me? Like, to not be alone or something .


There's always a chance you end up in the contacts list as "Free Food"
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Aug 16 2017 06:37am
Ain't paying for her, not stupid. Only payed on the date ofc.

Also it doesn't seem like she lacks friends.
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Aug 16 2017 02:51pm
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There's always a chance you end up in the contacts list as "Free Food"


Lol, ive heard stories of women doing that before. If any woman I knew did that to any men I would put her in her place asap. So disrespectful.

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Ain't paying for her, not stupid. Only payed on the date ofc.

Also it doesn't seem like she lacks friends.


You can always split things with her, you dont have to pay for everything. Go to a bar, you can pay for the first round, she can buy the second.
An easy way to gauge her interest, try to kiss her at some moment. This will tell you two things if she doesn't kiss you.

1. She's not into you
2. She's following some structured rule set, or holding back. Either of which is going to create unnecessary drama and bullshit that you probably don't want to have to deal with.

This post was edited by GLYC123 on Aug 16 2017 02:52pm
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Quote (GLYC123 @ Aug 16 2017 10:51pm)
Lol, ive heard stories of women doing that before. If any woman I knew did that to any men I would put her in her place asap. So disrespectful.



You can always split things with her, you dont have to pay for everything. Go to a bar, you can pay for the first round, she can buy the second.
An easy way to gauge her interest, try to kiss her at some moment. This will tell you two things if she doesn't kiss you.

1. She's not into you
2. She's following some structured rule set, or holding back. Either of which is going to create unnecessary drama and bullshit that you probably don't want to have to deal with.


i better just give up on this, i dont need this shit.

yet im a fucking loser, and i cant stop answering her texts.
i guess i like her, but cant trust her, and cant decide what to do.

fuck, i actually can read people so easy, but this girl, cant understand shit about her, freaks me out.

But I guess it's my fault, I shouldn't have asked her for a date, just to try and figure what she wants.

This post was edited by BigBalaBoom on Aug 16 2017 03:17pm
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i better just give up on this, i dont need this shit.

yet im a fucking loser, and i cant stop answering her texts.
i guess i like her, but cant trust her, and cant decide what to do.

fuck, i actually can read people so easy, but this girl, cant understand shit about her, freaks me out.

But I guess it's my fault, I shouldn't have asked her for a date, just to try and figure what she wants.


That doesn't make you a loser. I would still answer her texts, there's no.need to be rude to women. I see nothing wrong with asking women out on dates either, you did exactly what you were supposed to do. That's what men do, they're direct and decisive. You wanted to take her out and see if there was chemistry so you did that.

The reason why you can't read her could be that she's giving you mixed signals, and also that this is your own situation. Which you sound a little bit emotionally.invested in which makes it more difficult to.maneuver. It's harder to think as rationally when we are in an emotional state.

This post was edited by GLYC123 on Aug 16 2017 05:05pm
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Aug 18 2017 11:54pm
Maybe she doesn't know what she wants?

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Aug 19 2017 08:51am
Guess I was right, I got the chance to speak with one of her good female friends, and found out that she jealous of her, for getting new bf

And once I said that I don't trust her, she looked at me with a small smile moving her had "yes..."
Like she wanted to tell me that , but couldn't..
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Aug 20 2017 01:18am
Anyways il just meet her today for a coffe and ask her directly, tired of this games, what ever Gonna happen will be it.
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Aug 20 2017 03:56am
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Maybe she doesn't know what she wants?



It's also possible, as I found out that she broke up from long relation of 4 years like 2 months ago
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Aug 20 2017 08:22am
Well I friendzoned her lol,
Asked her , and she didn't know what to answer.


Thx for all answers guys!

This post was edited by BigBalaBoom on Aug 20 2017 08:22am
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