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Aug 15 2017 08:42am
So, there is that girl , she's a friend of my good buddy"s gf, we met like 2 times all together, never really talked with her anything,
Then some day, she starts to text with me, daily, after week or so she started to say things like "look there is nice new movie and im so hungry, and no one wants to go out wit me" , I took that as signs and decided to take her out, not a date. When we together it doesn't seem like she's interested, Doesnt show any signs tho, week later she come up again with her movie, I said sure, let's go out, and asked her if it's a date, after 4 hours, she answered yes :/,
Once again, on the date, no signs. It's been week after now, she still texting me, I never text first.

This is so confusing, because I wouldn't mind trying out with her, but I don't either care being her just a friend.

Few days ago she comes up with a weird question "am I scary?"

"Do boys afraid to start with me?"

Told her I dunno, and asked her what she thinks about me, straight up.

And she told me "your ok"
Oh and , she wants to fly to a vacation, and totally ready if I will fly with her?? We hardly know each other

Opinions lol?
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Aug 15 2017 08:50am
It sounds like she thinks the boy should make the first move. If you do, she will likely be fine with it. That being said, the fact that she wants to go on a vacation with you only a couple weeks after you start talking means she might be the type that gets attached/clingy crazy fast. If you want to be with her, you probably can with a little effort, but beware that she might be a little over the top if that's not what you're wanting.
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Aug 15 2017 10:26am
Quote (SaphirexX @ Aug 15 2017 04:50pm)
It sounds like she thinks the boy should make the first move. If you do, she will likely be fine with it. That being said, the fact that she wants to go on a vacation with you only a couple weeks after you start talking means she might be the type that gets attached/clingy crazy fast. If you want to be with her, you probably can with a little effort, but beware that she might be a little over the top if that's not what you're wanting.



Meh I'm not that type for short relations. And her son bothers me a lot,
I my self don't know what I want lol.
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Aug 15 2017 07:14pm
There's no friend zone there my friend. She wants a relationship and potentially a serious one rather quickly. If she has a kid and it bothers you, don't play games with her. Single moms take a considerable amount of patience if you want to make it work.

On the other hand; they are great and quick lays. Just don't mince words, make the moves, and the rest will fall into place more easily than you realize.

Again; if you don't want to make it last, make it known. It might rob you of a nut, but it won't scar the kid or mess with your head.
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Aug 15 2017 07:19pm
Yeah, she likes you. She might just be holding back and following some sort of rules. Which is why she's not being very good at expressing herself. She's texting you first, and bringing up getting together which is a huge sign of interest. Keep going with the flow, hit her up from time to time if you want to keep things progressing.

I would pass on the vacation thing, give it more time. Just say you would prefer to get to know her a bit more first.

But the choice is yours. There's nothing wrong with not knowing entirely right away, I understand not giving your heart away right away. That's fine.

This post was edited by GLYC123 on Aug 15 2017 07:24pm
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Aug 15 2017 07:45pm
Didn't read, your friendzoned, hard.
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Aug 15 2017 08:48pm
Eh, misread some stuff, the "your ok" comment was bad. Maybe she's trying to just play it cool. But I would prefer to spend my time with someone that thinks I'm fucking awesome, not just "ok".

By the way, don't ask women questions like that. I get that you're uncertain about things, but it makes you look insecure. Instead, just express yourself and see how they respond/reciprocate. "God, I have so much fun whenever I'm with you, I can't wait to see you again" or whatever

This post was edited by GLYC123 on Aug 15 2017 08:49pm
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Aug 16 2017 12:57am
Thx for the replies guys, got me another point of view now.


Is it possible that she's just using me? Like, to not be alone or something .

This post was edited by BigBalaBoom on Aug 16 2017 01:03am
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Thx for the replies guys, got me another point of view now.


Is it possible that she's just using me? Like, to not be alone or something .


Possible. Women will sometimes go out with men simply for the sake of going out because it's better than just sitting inside.
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Possible. Women will sometimes go out with men simply for the sake of going out because it's better than just sitting inside.


this.
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