You can't use a non-Verizon modem for FiOS service. You can, however, contact Verizon and have them enable the Ethernet port on the Optical Network Terminal (ONT - the box on the wall that FiOS service comes into). Right now, it will have coax coming out of it to the modem. With Ethernet enabled, you can run an Ethernet cable directly to the router of your choice, and ditch the FiOS gateway altogether (unless you have FiOS TV, in which case you have to use that box, as it routes the IP TV traffic).